help me i want a baby sooo bad?

Question

hi i just had an abortion bc i couldnt afford to have a baby and now i want one soo bad i cant deal with it anymore i am so jealous of everyone with a baby or pregnant i am ready to stop my world but my bf doesnt agree is it worth staying with him either way i dont get what i want and what do i do about my urges to want to be pregnant so bagly

Answer 1

I have gone through all your questions and it seems you are in big depressing situation. My advice would be to sit and relax, then think for one hour, write things on papers, sort it out.

You are not alone, you can have God to help you, just think of him for a second and you will have solutions in your mind.

All the best.

Answer 2

You've just been through a lot of stuff. You need to talk with someon about all the things going on.

Really depressing to lose a child. Even if it was ... expected/planned. Abortion is maybe harder than a miscarrage, psychologically. And I had a girlfriend who lost out first one. Very hard.

But, getting a baby, or getting pregnant won't stop the desire, or solve the turmoil. Get yourself settled and things will even out. Then you could be a parent, instead of just "having" a kid.

Answer 3

poke holes in the conndom! I'm just kidding but if you really really want one that is a good way to trick your bf into getting you pregnant. my pregnancy was not planned but that's because we didn't use one...drunken nights around the holidays..who knows which night though lol

but your urge to want a baby now is normal because I'm sure you feel like you were deprived of something..obviously a baby and now that you are aware of once being pregnant you are now noticing all the damn babies in the world. it is a beautiful thing though..I'm 34 weeks now with a boy on the way sorry to rub it in though. wish you luck!