I thought it interesting, out of the three dozen gay lovers I've had, half were married. The main reason; there wives don't like giving oral sex. What do you think?
2007-08-10 13:33:38 · 76 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you are pretty fuked up for knowing those men were married and still got your fudge packed by them.
2007-08-10 13:37:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 2⤋
That's not the main reason. If it were, these married men would find WOMEN to get oral sex from if their own wives won't do it.
These married men you've had are not straight, and THAT is the main reason.
At the least they are bisexual, and at the most they are gay and trying to maintain a "straight" image by being married.
What do I think of this? I think about the other spouse who is probably being exposed to all kinds of STD's including AIDS, and doesn't even know it - until they get sick.
In the case of the wife getting AIDS from her selfish, lying, gay husband, I'd say he should be brought up on murder charges.
There is nothing more selfish than a gay man who marries some poor woman just to use her as a front so nobody suspects him of being gay. For whatever reason. Job, his family, whatever reason he does this, it's absolutely the height of selfishness and not giving a crap about the other person in the marriage.
These men have no honor whatsoever, and in my opinion they are cowards at best, and criminals at worst.
2007-08-10 13:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You know I was reading some yahoo answers about heterosexual getting AIDS more than homosexuals!
When married men that are homosexuals marry a woman knowing he's Gay, sleeping with his "wife" and his boyfriend's,
It is not surprising that heterosexuals get AIDS.
It is my opinion, that is one of the main ways heterosexuals get aids but then who am I?
We have seen in many examples of celebs. who have wives and are gay how does that work?
A person cannot be gay and marry a woman gay men doesn't fall in love with women so how did that happen?
My problem with gay people is that they are trying to place the blame on heterosexuals for causing AIDS what hypocrisy!
All GAYS want homosexuality to be accepted as normal behavior when every man/woman knows that this is wrong.
The governments of this world that legalize homosexuality & homosexual marriages need to have a rethink, otherwise that will be the next plague the problem is this time the plague will be worldwide.
2007-08-10 13:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by sidestepper11 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think married men should be having sex with anybody other than their wife !! They are cheating Bas*ards !! Three dozen!! WOW!! Careful ever heard of HIV!! I believe it's just a line to get into your pants and it works!! Some women don't like it that's true but I don't think the number is very high!!
2007-08-10 14:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by Polar Molar 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sad that thier wives wont even try sometimes. But I also blame the man for marrying a woman whom he should have known would not give head before they met. So both are to blame. I really dont believe totally that it is that the wife "wont do it". I think it's more of an excuse for the man to be able to accept the fact that he is bisexual. That way he figures he is just a "straight" getting some really good head(gave you a compliment there!)
Anyway that's my thoughts on it!
2007-08-10 13:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by Hi Y'all! 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Are they married to men?
I think they are gay, that is a stupid excuse about what their wives won't do. If they were not gay they could find another woman to give them oral sex.
2007-08-10 13:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by brwnidjkmo 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
It's not because their wives don't like giving oral sex...it's because they are gay and just didn't want to admit it so they married. LOL...If it was just because their wife didn't like oral sex they would just have gotten a female hooker. :) think about it. But I do believe you that half were married. TONS of gay guys marry women.
2007-08-10 13:39:01 · answer #7 · answered by CSSW 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well I have had sex with 3 married men in my time, though they didn't tell me until after the deed, because otherwise I wouldn't have done it.
Two of them said that their wives wouldn't give oral, and so tried it with a guy, the other said he was bisexual and that his wife was bisexual too and they explored the other sides of their sexualities openly. I thought that a bit weird, because if you aren't committed to someone, why marry them? He invited me for a foursome with his wife and one of her lovers. Needless to say I declined!
2007-08-10 13:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am gay and it is NOT OKAY. I mean, it is still cheating right?? Male or female, you still had sex and it is unfair to the wife. The guy married the woman for love and not for sex and the wife being unable to do oral because she does not like it is not an excuse to cheat!!!
2007-08-10 13:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by Neverwater 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The real main reason: they are bisexual or gay and didn't realize or accept it until after they were married...and now they can't find it in themselves to tell their wives, or just won't end their marriages because it's easier to stay married and fool around on the side.
2007-08-10 13:37:56 · answer #10 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sad and deceitful and fraudulent. Frankly, I have a hard time believing a guy turns to a gay lover for oral and I wonder if they really tried to talk it out with the woman they took a vow with to forsake all others. I'd worry a bit about my relationship as well, if I were you.
2007-08-10 13:38:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋