She posted a question(s) and then used my answer(s) to compromise my actions with regard to a question she asked me, in other words, against me.Even though I answered the posted question with my heart and brain, That shouldn't have applied in the question she asked me. Every situation is different.
2007-08-10 12:39:44 · 7 answers · asked by reinformer 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No actually it was rather smart of her, she was trying to show u that from an out side prospective u see things differently when your "emotions' arent tied into it.. basically she just showed u what a hypocrite u can be.. and ur now upset and trying to twist it on her, because instead of realizing this about urself u want to blame her for it..
Its like when a man or woman talks to their friends whether it be a female or male when they are upset about something, ur so sweet..and compassionate, and listen intently.. but when something similar happens with someone u say u "love", people tend to , yell, go in defense, are selfish, and at times block out the other person when they try to talk to them.. isnt that funny how it works.. .. I think u need to buck up and realize that maybe ur not handling things with ur wife the way u should and atleast put in an effort to try and handle them differently. Marriage is not a competition of who is right and who is wrong..
2007-08-10 12:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? You are the first couple that I have heard of, that has both husband and wife on yahoo answers. You two rock! Now about your dilemma, It's not a dilemma! You two are communicating more, better, and creatively so why try to change that? You may need to start sabotaging your answers, maybe ask some weird questions that makes her go huh? Time to have fun with her state of mind. Just make sure when you are all done you give her a big smooch!
2007-08-10 19:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by delux_version 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is true every situation is different. Remember you 2 have a history. Like it or not we women never forget things and look for opportunities to bring it up...Don't ya just hate it? Can't live with us, can't live without us. A human is still better than a blow up doll.
2007-08-10 19:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a Private fight between the two of you because maybe I'm stupid but i haven't a clue what the hell your talking about.
2007-08-10 19:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey....check out the screen name attached to this answer and then recheck the question you answered, it wasn't me.
2007-08-11 21:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by C_Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like fun. Be careful what you write!
Also be careful you don't get reported for abuse of the system!..
2007-08-11 21:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2007-08-10 19:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋