how can i stop my mom from divorcing my dad? i no she fed up with him but how can i stop it?!?!? i tried the "u promised in front of god and everyone that you and dad would stay together forever" but it didn't work i am a 13yearold boy whos going Fu##### insane! i coulden't stand living without my dad he is my idol! so how can i stop this!
2007-08-10 11:47:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, you can't stop it.
If they want to get a divorce it's because their love is no longer there.
You don't want them to live a miserable life together.
It's best if they go their own separate ways
with less fighting.
Who knows they can end up being friends after the divorce.
2007-08-10 11:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by Desi. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am truly sorry for your pain but on an honest note, your parents are gonna do what they feel is best. I know you dont want to hear this because it might taking growing up a little to understand it but sometimes people are better off seperated. I know you see only the worse is to come, but think about this you'll have two houses, 2 rooms, still be with both parents, and at least still have them in your life instead of them not being there. Divorce is heartbreaking it is actually worse but most important thing to know is that your parents wont stop loving you and that you'll get through it. Ho,d on to your faith and sit your parents down, down yell but let your emotions spill out gte if off your chest. Tell them exactly how you feel. Make them listen and ask questions. hang in there bud, you're so NOT alone
2007-08-10 11:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 05:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop it. there could be problems much deeper then you realize. Parents divorce for reasons beyond your control or what your are capable of understanding. Its something you will have to learn to accept. Your dad will always be your dad, just because they aren't married doen't mean they don't love you or they stop being your parent. If you haven't already sit them down and tell them how you feel.
2007-08-10 11:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by lil vamp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant stop divorce. They have fallen out of love, it happens. My parents divorced when I was 4, its not easy but it gets better with time.
2007-08-10 11:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by Marla 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't stop your parents from divorcing but youjust need to remember that its not your fault and that it best for the 2 of them. That does not mean that you will live without either of your parents but that does mean that you can't be selfish and you have to be willing to forgive both of them. There divorce is going to hurt not only you, but them and even people around you all but you have to undestand that your parents would be doing this if they didnot feel it was that right thing, not that I'm saying divorce is right but sometimes its necessary
2007-08-10 12:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by Simply D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a marriage there are lots of things that happen behind close doors that our children dont know about and dont have any business of knowing about. If your parents are getting a divorce its probably something they have discussed long and hard and there is probably nothing you can do about it sorry. Just because your parents will no longer be married doesn't mean that you can't have anything to do with your dad he is and always will be your dad. If yall are close then chances are that you will have lots of time to spend with each other. Just think now when you are visiting your dad you guys can do guys stuff and not have to worry about girls get in the way.
Dont worry about adult stuff things are gonna work out for the best for you!!
Good Luck and keep your head up!
2007-08-10 12:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi hon.
first of all, it's not your place to tell your parents what they need as a couple. i know you're scared and in pain over this, and it's normal. actually, older children, such as you feel the effects of divorce more harshly than younger kids do.
if your parents divorce, it doesn't mean your dad will be gone from your life, forever or even one day... you probably have the option of choosing who to live with and also, you will be able to visit the other parent also.
right now you might need some good advice, and support, so i have listed some sources below. i hope that you can find answers to your questions. also, it might be a good idea to CALMLY talk with your parents.. instead of trying to tell them what to do let them know how you FEEL.
that may not change their feelings about each other, but you deserve support care and attention as well.
hugs.
2007-08-10 11:55:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am truly sorry to hear that your parents are divorcing...i cant even imagine what i would do without both of my parents...unfortunately there isnt much you can do...them divorcing doesnt mean they dont "love each other" it just means they arent "in love with each other"...i dont think there is anything you can say or do that will change their minds...who knows maybe things will be a lot better once they are separated...just because you arent going to have your dad living at your house doesnt mean it will be the end of the world...he loves you...and hopefully your mom will let you see him as frequently as you want... i wish you all the best...keep your head up and know that this will be for the better...you might not understand it now but as you get older you will
2007-08-10 12:32:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't your parents deserve to be happy?, don't they deserve to be able to live their lives with out fights and arguments ?.... its hard for you (I have been throught it) but your not losing your dad at all you will still see him and be with him ..just not everyday , you will also find that your life will be better as well with less tension and worry on your part with no more friction in the home .... so its not the end of your world ...its a new begining if you can just get past your selfishness
2007-08-10 11:58:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋