met at guy recently and he called to my house for a chat and asked if we could go out. He said he would be proud to have me as a girlfriend and that he really liked me ... quote "I would be proud to hold your hand walking down the street" however he was already engaged. Are most men compulsive liars. I had said to him that i liked him but please be up front with as i dont like dishonesty ........... he still is texting me but i ignore him should it tell his new wife?
2007-08-10 11:40:43 · 22 answers · asked by debbie j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He didn't lie.
He probably would be proud to have you as a girlfriend - he's probably the kind of guy who would be proud to have two girlfriends.
He probably would be proud to hold your hand walking down the street.
Men lie easily because women are so easily swayed. If just saying that he would be proud to walk down the street with you makes your panties melt - no wonder he keeps texting you - he thinks he has a live one.
Yes, by all means tell his new wife. Spare her the pain you are going through now.
2007-08-10 12:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are liars but I would venture to guess that most of them are not. People without values don't care what they do or say, as long as they get what they want. They abuse people in many ways and leave a path of destruction after they are done doing what they do. You need to be very selective in trusting people that you don't know very well. The men who lie to women are usually quite good at lying because they do it so often. (Can you imagine being married to someone like that? I would kill him in his sleep!!)
If I were you, I would forward his text messages to his wife so she can know what he is doing. Change your number and don't look back. What a loser this guy is!! If you can't forward text messages, give him an e-mail address (make one up just for this purpose) and have him e-mail you, make copies of all his e-mail communications and send them to his wife in a registered letter that she has to sign for.) What a low class jerk!!!
2007-08-10 18:50:55 · answer #2 · answered by turkeybrooknj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't lump all men together like that, I know there are many that can lie easily and well, but not all of us are liars. I only lie to save a persons feelings, like I would never tell a woman that the blemish on her nose is ugly, I would tell her she looks fine. I will also emit truth when I feel it is my own business, but I rarely out and out lie.
The worst is men who lie to women so they can have sex, makes it hard for women to trust any men.
Just remember not all men are lying pigs, some of us are honest.
2007-08-10 19:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women lie just as easily as men. Jut because you had a bad experience does not mean that all men are liars.
You have no business telling his wife; just maybe, he is perfectly sincere to her. You do not know that and therefore should not do anything to jeopardize their marriage. If he is not, it's her problem and not yours. You should cut all ties with him and let him know not to text you.
2007-08-10 19:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by thecharmedfive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont tell his new wife, let her find out on her own, it is not your place. Now he probably just wanted to make sure he was doin the right thing by getting married, he is or was scared and thats why he needed to be with some else also to feel secure about him self, he probably did like you but he loves his woman, you are doing the right thing by avoiding him and just move on. By the way even if you wanted to tell her she probably is not going to believe you and take his side, it is just going to make you look like the one that is trying to brake them apart, and you dont want to do that just be the bigger person.
2007-08-10 18:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mary! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women lie just as easily. in fact women are better deceivers. as far as tellin his wife? thats your decision. but it would probably be best to stay out of their relationship and let the spouse find out naturally. the truth is, u dont know his spouse. for all u know, his spouse is scandalous as well, that could be why he choose to cheat and talk to u on the side. unless he is harassing u or harming you in some way, i would just leave him alone and leave it at that. let him go cheat with someone else.
2007-08-10 18:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by unbeeleevaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. for a start......
Rule 1: Do not trust men easily....lol.....
Rule 2: If he says, "trust me" or a romantic verse, do not trust him at all...
Rule 3: If you are ever in doubt.. refer to Rule 1.
Of cos there are genuine and sincere men around.. but funny thing is they are difficult to locate.
Just ignore him.... as for his new wife... save her the distress..
Even worse, you might be wronged for the right reason... ha..
P/S: I thought women like to hear some lies>? :op
2007-08-14 14:20:31 · answer #7 · answered by alfahomme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listern if men think they can get something for nothing then they are gonna try it is upto you to shut him down.
Theres no need for you tell his wife she will find out sooner or later what the husband is up to and put a stop to it or just put up with it.
2007-08-10 20:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice.
2007-08-10 18:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quote from Simplylovely
"Women lie too, we are better at it though."
Yes...right (sarcastic).
I would like to point out that it is person and not the gender which dictates whether they lie and do it well.
2007-08-13 15:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Karker Ecoras 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋