My friend and sister get along great and I am happy about that but when we go swimming a topic comes up that makes me so angry. Yesterday they were saying that i need to run with them and not walk. I can understand that but when i run i get these horrible pains and almost passed out one time. They are saying that if I run more then the pains will go away but they won't! I tried it before they said that and it just hurts more Doesn't that make sense? If I want to run I will I do not need their input. And just a few minutes ago we were swimming and they were ganging up on me about the clenliness of my room. It is fine for me but they are saying "You stuff everything under your bed"
2007-08-10
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"Guys. You're not my mother, so back off. I appreciate the concern, but some things just aren't your business."
They're going to argue and tease. Just keep repeating the exact same line, and eventually they'll get bored with it and stop. They do it because they get a rise out of you -- don't feed their need to antagonize.
2007-08-10 11:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to let it get to you. I know its hard, believe me, I been in ur situation quite a few times. The way I dealt with it, was by just ignoring it, and get on with what I was doing. And just make sure that u dont say anything back, or at least try not to.
Hope it helps, also hope that you solve your problem.
2007-08-10 18:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Grimm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one dont let them know u get pissed at them two go find some other friends that are naught out to tell u how u should run ur life three if u cant run dont ,if u try a little at a time and it works for u fine ,but dont let them dictate ur life
2007-08-10 18:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might stop letting other people control your emotions. just because they want to run, doesnt' mean the rest of the world does... just because they don't like the way you keep your room, doesn't mean you are wrong.
let them know that you are your own person, and you'd appreciate it if they could learn to respect that.. meanwhile, let them be who they are too.
i hope this helps.. sometimes young people think if their friend jumps off a bridge, they ought to follow.
take care of YOU and don't worry about their thoughts. not worth it.
2007-08-10 18:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off be calm, second off when you are alone with each one, explain that you don't like being ganged up on and that its hurting your feelings, that you like your room the way it is, and when you don't you will clean/tidy it, and that you like spending time with them together but could they please not single you out and pick on you friends and family should be supportive of you not try to bring you down.
2007-08-10 18:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Chandra W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the main reasons they tease you so much is because you get so upset. If you would just ignore them or agree with them and smile, it would pretty soon not be fun for them anymore.
2007-08-10 18:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They know that it is getting to you, is the only reason they are harrassing you. Ignore them and tell them you will raid their rooms too. Laugh about it.
2007-08-10 18:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just being show-offs and looking for attention. They asre just probly jelous of you.
2007-08-10 18:31:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lilsisof3, Distance yourself,I mean stop going along with them. You are who you are and that"s who you will always be, cause you love yourself !
2007-08-10 18:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha make fun of them back =]
they'll back off
2007-08-10 18:29:36 · answer #10 · answered by love<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋