I have alot of mixed emotions sometimes it doesn't bother me but sometimes it does and I don't know if I should keep trying to make it work or not especially since the relationship is about to become a long distance relationship but I love him and I just need some honest anmswers about what would you do if you were in this situation
2007-08-10 11:23:37 · 8 answers · asked by Simply D 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
find out WHY he told you now of all times, and if it was only the once. He may feel guilty and had to tell you to your face before you guys could be separated. The biggest thing is talk to him. He can't get mad at you for being hurt because he did this.
2007-08-10 11:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were staying near one another, I would say go to counseling and get over the feelings, if you truly want to make things work.
However, his timing in revealing this is quite suspect to me. It's like he's looking for a way to end the relationship, perhaps because of the long-distance move coming up. The honest answers you need are from him, right now, as to whether he wants to continue the relationship or end things.
2007-08-10 11:32:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He cheated once and lied to you about it before, it will happen again.. Once the trust is broken between the two of you there is no repairing it! You must move on even if it is hard! Good luck!
2007-08-10 11:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by Melanie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he cheated on you once, and you both are about be separated for longer periods of time, you can count on him to do it again. Whatever you decide, just know that whatever he says, he WILL get with someone else if the opportunity presents itself -- and without fear of you walking in on him, there will be ample opportunity.
2007-08-10 11:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by markbowen_99 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once the trust is broken, it can never be repaired. There will always be a black mark on your relationship. I know.
2007-08-10 11:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Once a cheater always a cheater. Apparently you are unable to trust him as he cheated. Good luck.
2007-08-10 11:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by CHELLE 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him stew a bit, make him think that u r going to leave him, and make him beg, a lot, then forgiv hiim, he cheated yes, but it was a year ago and he told u about it, punish him, but don't end it.
2007-08-10 11:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by jt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why's he telling you NOW?
What is his motives?
What will he do to make it up to you to satisfy the pain your in?
Run, if you don't think the answers to these questions have a happy ending.
2007-08-10 11:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋