He says its stress, or that he's tired - he says its not me, but it's impossible not to take it personally. How normal is it for a guy his age to have absolutely no interest in sex? It's not that I'm a nymphomaniac or anything, but we're past the two week mark, and I'm beginning to wonder if stress can really be the only thing thats influencing his actions.... or lack there of. I'm running out of ideas. Any suggestions or comments would be greatly appreciated.
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2007-08-10 11:17:29 · 4 answers · asked by Alicia I 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's in the army, so it's not unemployment. Also, we don't have any kids. We have a puppy, but I don't think thats the cause. As far as debt goes, I just graduated college and he has a few student loans. Nothing extravagent, but we arn't debt free. I'm begining to feel very sad about all of this...
2007-08-10 11:39:02 · update #1
He is either GAY or his Schlong wont get hard....either way what a terrible situation to be in at such a young age. Heck i am 42 and i cant get enough of my GF when it comes to sex!!
Good luck, but it sounds like you married a lame duck!!
2007-08-10 11:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kzracer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you're not un attractive so that's ruled out already.
To be honest with you. It might be stress or debt, credit card bills, kid worries, or unemployment depending on your situation. Or it also might lack of sexual drive or function.
I really don't know.
You might want to ask another guy friend or family member close to him to talk to him and find out what's wrong or how's it going in his marriage so far? Good luck to you...
Man, I'd be having sex with my new wife at least 3 -4 times a week and I'm 36.....LOL! Thats the beauty of marriage....lots of guilt - free sex!!! LOL
2007-08-10 18:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Warrior Guardian 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope.. I knew someone with the same problem, he made her feel cheap when she tried for sex. Seek a good counselor
2007-08-10 18:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT normal!
2007-08-10 18:21:54 · answer #4 · answered by Joseph F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋