A friend once told me. When I was single, that I would run into my future wife, withoutknowing it. Its when U don't find Love on that day, but instead you go about your normal everyday routine activities of every day life and when you bump into someone, that will be your perfect soulmate. Is this true in life??? About finding the right MAN or WOMAN, in someone's life. It seems puzzling at times, when you are looking for TRUE LOVE [actively] versus letting TRUE LOVE look for you [passively].
2007-08-10 09:45:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hear crazyem! This is somewhat confusing! lol haha About finding true love, somewhere, somehow, someplace, at sometime. I guess, it has something to do with perfect- timing. Don't know...
2007-08-10 09:54:03 · update #1
WOW! Lynnette r. I am happy for you! I hope everything turns out great between you and your new bf. Happiness is the most super important in a beautiful relationship. Thanks guys! Ya'll are so helpful! Thank you so very much!
2007-08-10 10:09:05 · update #2
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2007-08-10 10:21:15 · update #3
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2007-08-10 15:22:06 · update #4
you find your soulmate on the day you are not looking. it is like this person just fell out of the sky. when you start talking you will that this person has been close by, but you never got to touch or smell them.
for me i think, i would love to be the person found. it is the thrill of the hunt. hide go seek type game. yeah, i say it is definately the chase.
but i just thought of something...if everybody is out running, who is doing the chasing. hummmmmmmm, something to ponder on.
2007-08-10 14:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by karMA_DAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definitely believe in letting love find u for sure. After I split from my last bf I told my friend that I was going to stay single for at least 6 months, that I would not enter any type of relationship, I would just enjoy being single and free and spend time with friends etc, and I was quite looking forward to it. One week later I met a guy, completely by accident, gave him my number (something I never, ever do) and now 9 months later we are engaged to be married, and he is the most wonderful man I have ever been with, and completely opposite of any man I have ever "found" on my own. I truly believe he was sent to me and is the man I was meant to be with. I encourage everyone to do this, I am not the only success story that has met this way.
2007-08-10 10:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um it;s not really either, though if you're really looking you're never going to find someone. But if you close yourself off it won't happen either. It's kind of about stumbling onto something at the right time. It could be with a person you've known for a while, or someone you just met. You take it where it leads you. And somehow things work out. (The suckiest thing is if you find someone great but the timing is whacky and you're ready but they're not.)
2007-08-10 09:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you make too much of an effort to find true love you are going to miss out. Your true love could be right underneath your feet so to speak. I have a couple of friends that were having trouble getting pregnant...they were so intent on becoming parents with their husband...that they went through adoption agencies to start the process of adopting a child...and wouldn't you know it...after relaxing a bit...they ended up getting pregant. So I would say...let true love find you.
2007-08-10 09:54:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer to question is really complicated.I was married b4,and now I have a girlfriend,we have been together past 10 yrs but honestly it is not true love...and recently I travelled overseas and over there we stayed in my girlfriends relatives house and I happened to bump into this girl and believe me it was love at first site and now we are planning to get married.......hows that .I believe she is my soul mate....and I believe in true love.God plays strange games....hopefully u also bump into somebody special and believe me u will know....good luck.
2007-08-10 10:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by nighthawk69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desire is always better than need when it comes to love. If you are out actively looking and needing to find someone, you won't or will find the wrong person. If you don't have to have someone, then you will truly find someone you want.
2007-08-10 09:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be something to that, divorced now, but when i first saw my husband, i was at work, not looking and suddenly, i looked at him and knew i was going to marry him. we were in love for years, because of problems he had i had to leave him, i have love for him now, but not in love w/him anymore and he would've fixed his problem we probably would still be together. now today, i went out w/a friend was not looking and met a wonderful guy (now dating 4mos) - i even told my girlfriend i did not want to go out - sat next to him and we started talking and from there we do alot of great things together.
2007-08-10 09:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by lynnette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHH, your friend is a genius!
That's exactly it!!!!!!!!! It's f*ckin crazy beautiful....the planets alligned and my world..after all the years, finally-
makes-
sense.
2007-08-10 09:50:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never come your way... you'll never find it if you're looking for it....
2007-08-10 09:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by nomoretears4uboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋