Who would you rather be friends with?

Question

Who would you rather be friends with between Matt or Rolando?

Rolando: He is my best friend and like me he has a learning disability and he graduated from high school 4 years before I did, plus he can get persuasive, persistant and a bit of a control freak at times and he really takes alot of pride in his friendships and he really cares alot for his friends and tends to expect a little too much from his friends, when it comes to him caring for his friends he would let you know how much he cares about them

Matt: he is from a wealthy family and he is a wealthy businessman, he is a really laid back guy although he is a bit snobby and stuck up, plus he is the kind of friend who would take his buddies out on camping trips, trips to the river, go water skiing, ride on a boat, go on road trips, trips to the mountains and take us to rock concerts.

I sometimes feel that I should be friends with Matt cause if I become friends with him I would be able to expand my horizons more and be able to experience new things, Rolando doesn't provide his friends the fun that Matt provides his friends cause Rolando doesn't even have a job and half the times Rolando is broke and he sometimes lives off of his parents.

I don't really consider Matt to be my friend at all and I graduated from high school with his younger sister who was a stuck up snob

Answer 1

Personally I would rather be friends with Rolando cause he sounds like a true friend who would do anything for his friends and he really does seem to care alot for his friends, personally I think the reason why Matt has alot of friends is because of his wealth and what Matt can do for them, Matt doesn't sound like a loyal friend like Rolando does.

I personally can relate to Rolando alot better than guys like Matt cause I know where Rolando comes from

To be honest with you being friends with Matt isn't all about sunshine and peaches and you shouldn't be friends with Matt just so he can provide you alot of fun, I know that what he gets to do with his buddies may be alot of fun but he may only invite a certain number of people to tag along with the good times that he has.

What I would do is focus on your friendship with Rolando and you'll be rewarded for it in the end, I would feel blessed to have a great guy like Rolando as my best friend and you should to.

Answer 2

I'm wondering if Rolando should be friends with YOU. are you really the kind of guy that thinks "what can you do for ME?" be friends with both, you''ll be a better person for it.

Answer 3

I think you can benifit from both friendships set up bounds with rolando so there is no confusion as to when he is overstepping his boundrys all diffrent people in your life is a good balance if we were all the same it would be really boring dont ya think good luck

Answer 4

You seem that in a way you want to be friends with Matt because he has money, you seem very material, if its just the good friend you want and u can only choose one, which i dont see why u would have to choose ronoldo.

Answer 5

well ima be honest here rolando seems like a girlfriend 2 me and i think thats a bad thang i dnt want a friend that excepts a lot outta me or that is a control freak

Matt seems like a better friend 2 hang out with

I guess it depends on wat kinda friend u want

A friend 2 hang out with or a friend that will be there when u need him

But y couldnt u be friends with both

Answer 6

Well from your description I would say Matt. Not for the money thing but because I don"t care for pride filled contol people !

Answer 7

you are saying that they are your "friends" but you are comparing them as if they were potential "boyfriends" Why can't you be friends with both guys??? That is the main question that came to my mind. We have different people in our lives to get different views, opinions, and experiences. If they are just friends than would one of them not be accepting of the other...Or your relationship with them? .If so than that is not someone you want to hang around.............

Answer 8

Sounds like matt can show you a better time, but really from your description, neither sound like very interesting people.

Answer 9

Ummm, I couldn't read it all b/c it was too long but why can't you be friends with both? And you can't just pick who will be your friend just b/c they can offer you something. Sounds like you're a little too shallow to be friends w/either of them.

Answer 10

You can be friends with both. they dont have to hang together. you can hang with them separately. we dont have to choose between friends, good friends are hard to find. keep the ones who care for you around.