what to do?

Question

so i went and spent some time with a friend of mine who is a guy and i finally trusted him. hes so funny, nice, and caring and so thats why i gave my trust 2 him. this is a huge feat for any guy 2 achieve with me cuz i'm really tough and i didnt want 2 get hurt after one guy. so i felt i could trust him, and then we were talking bout my bod on my instant messager, and he kept telling me how beautiful i am, i was just whatever, unsure cuz he tells every chick that, but he said he was serious, i thought he was only joking or whatever, and i laughed or whatever and dint think much of it, then i check out his imvu and in like evry pic hes kissing these chicks that r from like half way cross the state that he really doesn't even know, and the same day a friend of mine who is his best friend 2(hes also a guy) told me on the im that he has been direspecting a girl we both know and r friends with, he keeps asking her out and he said his "dad" wanted to get them alone. and now i'm so hurt

i want 2 kill him and my friend defiently wants to kill cuz he hurt me, and we start high school next week, i soo want 2 kill him but i'm christian and i recently went to a youth conference in atlanta, georgia and i've changed spiritually, so deep down inside i just want 2 forgive and forget, i mena hes only human right? but i'm so empty, and now im so depressed.....

Answer 1

Okay, so as a Christian you are intimately familiar with the concept of forgiveness, assuming that forgiveness is even necessary because you don't know for a fact that what was alleged was true. At the very least it's worth a non-condemning conversation to discuss the matter, don't you think? Jesus was convicted and executed; (though this was a part of Divine plan) so it proves most anyone can be falsely accused; people make claims for their own reasons and their motivations are not always known. Your mission now is to try to determine what's real: the guy you opened up to, or the guy telling you stuff about him. Good luck as things unfold.

Answer 2

i think you need to forget about him

he probably did tell every girl in the world that

yoou just have to know that you deserve soo much more than being treated like that.

obviously he doesnt deserve you..what he wants is someone who is easy...but you are worth more than that

ive been in this situation quite a few times
but i just have to find better people to surround myself with
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