i think my parents are going to have a divorce?

Question

my mom said that she might go to korea and never come back..so my parents MIGHT have a divorce. who do i live with? i love both of them very much and i cant live with them both because ill be going on the plane and stuff. i dont know what to do! please help!

Answer 1

Well depending on how old you, the judge awards custody to the a certain parent.

I think since your mom is planning to move very far you definetely have to live with one and visit the other.

Don't worry so much just wait until things happen.
Remember that no matter what happens they will always be your parents and I am sure they will love you the same!


Good luck

Answer 2

First of all wait and see if what u think might happen, actually happens. There is no use worrying about something that u may not have to deal with. If it does happen then u just have to sit and weigh out the pros and cons of living with each parent. Since u love them both, concentrate on which would be easier for u to adapt to this change more easily. Where are your friends, where do u think u would be happier living (location wise), etc. Just remember u are not choosing a "parent" u are just choosing the lifestyle and surroundings that is best for u.

Answer 3

Oh, this is the easiest part. Don't do anything. Nothing, nada.

Reason. You can't do anything.

Depending on your age, the court will tell you who you can live with, and also who you will see and when. If your old enough, talk to both, and deciede who you will want to rule over your life. I myself ended up switching after a few years. Your not stuck forever with that decision.

Divoce does happen, it is sad, and also a good thing. Some people are great people while they are seperated, but turn evil when mixed together in the same room. You can't change them, it is impossible. But the first thing to do is talk to your parents, ask them what is going on. Second, don't do anything. Let it happen, the dust to settle, and in a few years, everything will be as it should.

Answer 4

Assuming both your parents are good people, you should spend as much time with both of them that is practically possible.

You should sit down and talk to both your parents. I'm sure they have ideas about this too.

For children whose parents live far apart, the most typical schedule is to be with one parent during the school year and be with the other parent during non-school time (vacations, summer, etc.).

So, you should be with the parent most equipped to help you with school during the school year and the other parent during the other times.

Answer 5

The real question here is: What do you want to do with your life? What are your goals? What is your plan for your life? If you can answer those questions then you will know who to live with, for how long, and what to do next. It's no longer about them, it's now about you. Take care of yourself. You'll be okay, if you don't live their life, but live your own.

Answer 6

let your parents sort that out but be informed about Korea if you do go with mom its nothing like where your at now and then you will know what you can expect

Answer 7

Your Mother may just be blowing off some steam, but if it were to happen, I think your parents would decide that for you.

Answer 8

look i went throw that a my advice is that u should go with the most that take care of u the most and that never treat u wrong

Answer 9

well ide say to go with mom and come back with dad, all summer, moms and daughters get along better than dads and daughters same thing vise versa with guys, but go with ur heart, sorry to hear about ur parents, and i hope all works out for u..........

Answer 10

I agree with John.