that was what i was trying to ask before but did not know how to phrase it? why is it that we make a connection to someone just for sex but we tell them that it is love
2007-08-10 07:11:49 · 14 answers · asked by JOEY J 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Men use the word "love" to get sex, and women use sex to get love- affection, kindness,etc. That's why there are more women prostitutes and less male prostitutes; women don't value their bodies as much and are willing to sacrifice the body for a deeper bond. At least, that's my opinion.
2007-08-10 12:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by mirroreyes9 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every male wants sex but if he says this to the girl she is never going to give it ( or the chances are 5% for saying yes) so the obvious route would be to use the most reliable and trusted method of " I LOVE YOU" which works almost everytimes. And when the work is over we start the fights and the result is that the girl leaves us and then we go for the new one to seek LOVE (?). I know it sounds like an MCP but at least true.
2007-08-11 02:06:30 · answer #2 · answered by A VERY ORDINARY MAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just the changing time,the demonstration effect,
it has become a trend now a days to have a boyfriend only because it is a fashion.
The real meaning of love has never been understood by any one nor they have been taugh about it by their parents or the school. This is the only reason there are many like me who hate girls,they break heart.
2007-08-13 20:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Peoples never confuses love & sex uses love in sted of sex to confuse others. Look when two opposit sex persons come together and are of same age and feelings then sex comes there as change i.e. love follows sex and cleaver (you may call cheeters) persons takes advatage of love for sex.
2007-08-13 00:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sachin Belokar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who confuse Sex with love are perhaps those people who are yet to evolve beyond the sensory levels of perceptions, to be able to experience emotions without being provoked by sensory feel! That is why the phrase 'make love' has evolved ...... when it cannot happen by itself!
2007-08-11 20:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby how would people fool someone otherwise
as love is an emotion that blinds u to every thing else and whereas mere sex is just the fulfilment of a momentary lust or a physiological need caused due to hormonal changes
2007-08-12 01:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by yashoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a deep rooted connection between love and sex Love lead to lust and lust lead to love.eg.people fall in love and that lead lust(sex) In arranged marriage lust lead to love.So these two are deeply interconnected.We hardly see platonic love which do not attract sex !
2007-08-11 11:24:30 · answer #7 · answered by lathika r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not love...love is something which has no connection to the physical world...sex is dependent on physical matter...but if you love someone ...you just love...you do everything you can to just make them happy....but when it comes to sex...if the person whom you love to have sex with...lost some of the attractive part which used to drive you nuts...then you lose your sexual drive towards that person....YOu know what I mean.>???
2007-08-10 19:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousG 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't tell them it's love- be honest and life is easy. Just say friends with benefits. And love who you love.
Sex and love are not related, however you do make love (sex) with the "one" you love! Sex is just exercise and banging for fun.
2007-08-10 19:07:02 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We confuse the two because many of us are unable to distinquish between or identify the "TYPES" of love;...and purpose of sex .
God created sex to be used in its proper place and time,according to his plan.If we obey and operate within that plan ,the sexual instinct is a good thing!
We were created as males and females and God intended for us to be attracted to one another. He gave to each of us an endowment of physical forces....called "drives" , that help us to to live and grow.We have the drive "self preservation" which is the instinct to protect ourselves and to find food and shelter;Another is the drive for religion,a way to satisfy our awareness of the spiritual realm .Then the drive that is probably the most misunderstood,is the human desire for sex . This is the inner compulsion to seek out and mate with a member of the opposite sex ,to enjoy the physical pleasure of sex,and to produce "offsprings. (Genesis 1;27-28,31)Outside of God's plan its a means of division,a source of cruelty,all types of vile perversions and ....death!
Even though the sex drive is good, it must be controlled. It is important to understand that we are born with a sinful nature that would like to give full rein to the sex drive.
"Joy "can often be confused with simple pleasure and can deceive us into thinking that sex is the answer to all our problems. In many towns and cities we can find massage parlors,peep shows , strip clubs and houses of prostitution ....where people go to indulge themselves sexually without thought or control. Some people allow their sex drive to run wild on a day to day basis.!
God's Word condemns this way of thinking . However much enjoyable it is at first ,an uncontrolled sex drive will destroy you emotionally and physically!
LOVE:..True love is as strong as death;it cannot be killed by time or disaster;it cannot be bought for any pricebecause it is freely given. It is so "Priceless", even the richess person in the world cannot "BUY" it . Love must be given and accepted as a gift from God and shared within the guidelines in his word. Types of love:
"AGAPE" LOVE.....GOD'S KIND OF LOVE ....LOVE WITHOUT STRINGS ATTACHED FOR HIS SON AND THE HUMAN RACE,( John;17;vs26 ,John:3;16 and Romans,5;vs6).
"AHAB" (OR AHEB) LOVE..... MAY SIGNIFY SEXUAL LUST,(2 SAMUEL13;vs1).
"YADA" OR 'SHAKAB "....REPRESENTS MAKING LOVE OR TO LIE WITH(1 KINGS 11:1,JER 2;vs25, AND ZECH13;vs 6).
"AHABAH "LOVE....REFERS TO FAMILY ,FRIENDS,ROMANTIC OR SEXUAL "LOVE" AS A STATE OF BEING OR ACTIONS REFLECTING STRONG AFFECTIONS,ATTACHMENTS,OR COMMITMENT. (GEN 29;vs20,LEV,19: vs18, 1 SAMUEL 18;3 AND DEUT 7:vs8).
And finally, What is Love?...Love suffers long and is kind;love"does not envy;love does not parade itself,..is not puffed up;does not behave rudely,"does not seek its own,is not provoked;"thinks no evil;does not rejoice in iniquity ,but rejoices in the truth;"bears all things, believes all things,hopes all things,endures all things;love never fails.(`1Corinthians 13;vs4-8)
2007-08-12 01:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by skyy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋