How do I know when I come?

Question

When having sex how do i noe when i come?

Answer 1

Do you mean how do you know if you have had the big O? Because if you have to ask, you haven't!

Answer 2

lol everyone is true, if you have to ask you never have. No worries though!! That's sooooo normal.
It is hard to explain what it feels like, but in brief it is about 2 to 15 seconds of WOW like a wave that sweeps over you, tensing up down there, your mind goes blank and you sort of close down all other feelings for a few seconds. The key is that it is brief and just feels different- that is why you will know. After it you feel so relaxed and usually want to stop lol.
You will not experience your 1st O with your partner. You have to learn how on your own. Go out and buy a "silver bullet" sex toy. You use it outside of you, not in you, so don't be afraid. It looks like a silver egg on a cord. It vibrates and should give you an O for sure if you use it on your clit. They are cheap too 10$! Relax one night and have fun solo. Try every night or once a week, give it time. After you experience it then you can coach your guy how to make it happen, and know when it is starting or close based on what you feel.
Best of luck sweetie!

Answer 3

The question has been answered several times. I just wanted to say that I have been around. ALOT!!
Yet still, I have learned quite a bit here. Laughed to the point of tears, and have enjoyed it very much.
I have "known" many women throughout my life. Not exactly proud of it, but I can tell you first and last names. At least I remember them all.
Some girls just don't achieve orgazms as easily as others, and some don't at all. A couple. Only a couple. I found them.
You guys know who I'm talking about. Yep.
Nonetheless, when you find the person who uncorks your bottle, you will definitely know absolutely for sure.
I'm a guy, and quite unfortunately my first sexual achievement occurred at 11, while I was climbing a tether-ball pole on the playground. Who knew? I sure didn't, but after numerous failed relationships, I went back to that school 20 years later and stole the pole.
We are now in a healthy, and committed relationship, very much in love. Arguements happen, but not very often. We are a happy and loving couple, and the world is good.
You'll know....you'll know.

Nad

Answer 4

I agree with most of the other posters. If you are not sure whether you did or not...you didn't. Basically you will know because you will feel really good to the point of not even knowing anything else around you. You will be just totally lost in that feeling and then after your whole body will be so relaxed like you can't even move but at the same time your heart will be pounding so had like you just ran a race. I agree with many of the other posters as well. This is something you should try on your own. Once you know what makes you climax it's much easier to share that with your partner because honestly...men are completely clueless :)

Answer 5

When you orgasm there is this intense pressure that builds up in the muscles of your vagina and then that pressure releases fast hard contractions of all of your body muscles, but mainly in your vagina. Your partner should be able to feel it as well while he is inside of you it will feel like a squeezing pressure on him. Shortly after this you will com. And before sex while you are getting aroused most females will get more wet down there, but this is not actual cumming.

Answer 6

First of all, what everybody else says... you will know. But really if you are like most women, you will not have this happen from sex with a partner, at least not at first. Usually women have to figure out how to do this 'for themselves' first, with a vibe or manual stimulation, or else from oral. Even with experienced women, less than half actually have an orgasm from intercourse alone.

Answer 7

You will definitely know because your toes will curl and you will be going up walls. The feeling can be different for each individual woman, but the feeling is very strong so when the time comes you'll know.

Answer 8

I asked the same thing too until a couple of days ago, and OMG i know i may risk sounding repetitive but you'll just know. First you vagina muscles get really tense and they get more and more tense. Than you'll get contractions in your vagina muscles which will spread to your whole body and your body will become shaky and spasm etc for a bit, until you start to relax, and walah, an orgasm (basically).

Answer 9

You get a tension down there, like the one you feel when you go down from the space mountain, then that tension goes all over your body and you feel a relief, your legs may move and you may have contractions in your vagina as well you´ll get more wet, you´ll definitely know when it comes.

Good luck! ;D

Answer 10

if you masturbate and reach a climax, then its basically no different with sex. it has been shown that there are two forms of climax in a female: 1. a clitoral climax, 2. a vaginal climax having one or the other is still a climax. talk to some women and get an idea what they experience.

Answer 11

If you are anything like my wife, you won't confuse it with a yawn.

I watched a rodeo once, aside from the gender and clothing the guys riding the bucking horses reminded me of the gyrations my wife was capable of.

Trust me, you will know.