2007-08-10 06:32:49 · 18 answers · asked by pravee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Both relationships are true . .
but parents is alot more stronger, because they will always love you without expectations.
2007-08-10 06:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by samara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it have to be one or the other?
If marraige is something you feel should last a lifetime, then always put your wife first. If not, you'll wind up alone. Your parents may not always agree with your decision, but they'll love you unconditionally. When you marry, you agree to make that person a part of yourself, and you've made no such agreement with your parents.
2007-08-10 13:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is your wife trying to break apart you and your parents or are your parents trying to break you and your wife up? which ever one is trying they are not worth leaving the other one for in my opinion others might say parents because they are family but so is your wife.
2007-08-10 13:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God said a man shall leave his parents and cleave unto his wife..and vice versa. The true relationship must now be between husband and wife. The man and the woman must become one. Nothing else makes sense really. A child must grow up, kapish?
2007-08-10 13:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by jokerthefreak1 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
All your relationships are true... duh. Its not like one of them is an imaginary creature like a unicorn - don't ask dumb questions.
If you're asking which is more important, that is actually for each individual person to decide... and hopefully figure out about their partner before they marry them.
Me personally, would NEVER even consider marrying a man who wouldn't consider me (his wife) and his possible future children his #1 priority. I would be his new immediate family and then his parents would have to come second to us and our well being. That is how I would treat him, and that is what I expect.
There are also people who don't think like this... so to answer your question... you have to look within yourself to know what you want, and then your spouse has to look within themselves to know what they want. There is no right answer here. It varies through culturally and individually.
2007-08-10 13:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know yet it should be WIFE.
What do your parents have to do with your next 30 years?
Parents who claim to have the best situation in mind for you
are not armed with the understanding of YOUR world.
Your wife should be a part of your world.
Unless your mom intends to start sleeping with you I think I would stick with the wife.
2007-08-10 13:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Flagger 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well these days marriage doesn't seem to be as binding as it used to be. It is really a different answer for everyone. Some people have terrible relatonships with their parents, others have probably wished death upon themselves because of who they chose to marry.
2007-08-10 13:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mintminty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would REALLY help if people asked questions that other people could make SENSE out of!
From the meager information you've listed, BOTH relationships are true....but they both have different dynamics.
2007-08-10 13:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The relationship you have with yourself is the most true one of all.
2007-08-10 13:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by lost in a world of confusion 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both are but your wife should always come first.
2007-08-10 13:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋