You talk to a guy for a few week, you have sex, they dont answer your call, a week later you talk again, have sex again, then they run off. Meanwhile they tell you ur the best sex they've had and they like you? Is it a game? Should i still call him after this?
2007-08-10 06:17:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry,
I agree he's using you - but what do you want??
We automatically assume on this part of the forum that askers want a real genuine loving and respectful relationship - is that what you want?
If so DO NOT CALL HIM!! When he calls tell him NO. He'll try again - when he feels the need. But he is not the one for you at this time - he's got quite a bit of growing up to do.
But maybe you just want to have fun ...
Even so this guy seems a bit shallow to me - but some girls like shallow water - less chance of floating off eh?
If that's your thing and all you want is more contact between sexual episodes - then when he contacts you for more sex see him and explain what you think. Go easy on the feelings side or he will run!!
Say you think the sex is great too but want to have fun between sexual episodes WITHOUT COMMITMENT - see how he reacts. Could be he is even too shallow for that.
Having got that out of the way - can I say you need to think deeply about this - maybe you really do want more and need someone who is a bit more mature. If so just let him go
hope this helps
Joe
2007-08-10 09:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well really he failed the frist step of being a man, namly he doesn't stand for anything, so really its all your fault. Sorry to say that but there well always be boyz like that in this world you can't control them and you can't change them, but you on the other hand can stop thinking thats someone worth your time for one, and stop insulting all other man out there by think thats what this male is, he isn't by any measure.... O yea if they ever tell you its the best sex they ever had, thats game, when the sex is that good your actions show it, not just your words. So yea you got gamed, and sure call him, maybe you'll learn your lesson faster if you keep this up.....
2007-08-10 07:17:37 · answer #2 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but your nothing but a "BOOTY CALL" for him and your allowing him to continue having sex with you. Knowing that he not going to call you again until he want some more action. (Totally your fault) You should cut him loose or tell him to start spending more time outside of the bed room or no action inside the bedroom.
2007-08-10 08:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by travlove36 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should do for all time its no longer gonna count finally. she will cheat returned. Hun purely admitt defeat!! consult along with her and inform you are able to not drain your self sexually and emotionally purely so she won't play around with different adult males. Frankly it is purely an excuse and he or she is a egocentric woman with the concepts-set "try this in any different case somebody else will". possibly you like her alot or despite yet you are able to desire to have a coronary heart to coronary heart. If she do no longer like it then possibly you 2 would desire to think returned your marriage and choose whats next. in the adventure that your spouse somewhat enjoyed you she would not cheat on you EVER!!! think of roughly this. And reliable success with each thing
2016-10-09 22:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask me. I wouldn't even know the first step to take to talk a girl into having sex with me...
2007-08-10 11:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I mean if you don't want to be a booty call, you have to cut him loose. If you dont want to date him, then make him ur dick in a glass and use him.
2007-08-10 09:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn where were all this stupid girls like u when I was a teenager
2007-08-10 09:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by tim z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋