Your friend is always late and this time you have been waiting for almost an hour. At this point, you are getting angry. Finally, your friend arrives with a very glib explanation. Do you smile and blow it off, or do you confront him or her?
2007-08-10 06:15:22 · 10 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
jack 'um up, verbally......then change the subject......
2007-08-12 02:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by DennistheMenace 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront!!! Being consistantly late is a form of passive-aggressive behavior. If someone is late to see you, they are probably late for a lot of things in their life. It is a very bad habit. Tell your friend to set her clocks ahead by the number of minutes she or he is usually late. Tell your friend that therapy would be good for him or her. Being late is not a good thing.
May God bless you.
2007-08-10 06:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by kathleen m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is always late, I tell him when I'm leaving then I leave, sometimes he's late and goes off to do something else, sometimes he drives down on his own. But he pays the price for his own flighty behaviour.
2007-08-11 01:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by btceng64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes. But make sure that you are not maneuvering their time. I realized that someone was doing that to me. They had scads of free time. I had none. So they would set some arbitrary time that was great for them and not take into consideration my time restraints. I finally had to start saying.
No. No. and NO. That is not doable for me. They got the message and less stress for me.
2007-08-10 06:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they can't be that great of a friend if they're always late. so i think i would confront her. and for an hour! that's outrageous
2007-08-10 06:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell her what i exactly feel and let her know that she should respect the time and have a word of honor
2007-08-10 06:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutly...it would upset me they had no respect for me to be soooo late
2007-08-10 06:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is the first time , suck it up...If it happens all the time, you be late the next time.........
2007-08-10 06:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by dorton girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say sorry I made other plans :)
2007-08-10 06:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hell no! i would tell her how upset i am
2007-08-10 06:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by Don't quote me on this... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋