just wondering if that private bit of information is something that women share with their best friends....
my hunch is "yes", which makes me a little nervous b/c I am "small"!
So, is my little secret a secret?
2007-08-10 05:46:47 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dude, I don't even know you and I know you are small! Yes, they probably all know... but the thing is that if you are small and she loves you then don't worry. So you are small... you can make up for it by not being a drunk, losing you job, hitting your wife, doing drugs... I am sure that your wife's friends have there own issues with their significant others... just be you dude.
2007-08-10 05:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually women are more private than men. I think she should be more worried about you telling your friends what she's like. Women only reveal penis size to friends when it's just some guy she had a fling with. But I don't think I would share my husband's physical features with my bestfriends, no matter what... especially if he's insecure about it. She should be respectful of your privacy and you should be respectful of hers. So I'm hoping that your little secret is a secret. And how do you know it's small? What if it's average?
2007-08-10 05:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by poofiepoofievern 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you are a good lover, it doesn't matter. There are a hundred other things the truly fun and creative lover can and should be doing. Making love is not just about intercourse, it's about the whole sexual experience. Broaden your horizons and all your wife's friends will know is that she is sooooo very happy, and it's because you have made her that way.
By-the-way, generally, women talk about a guy's size a whole lot less than guys think or do. Yes, it does happen sometimes, but not as often as you think. Measuring is a guy's obsession, not the key ingredient for most women.
2007-08-10 05:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is probably a secret.
Because if it were big, she would probably have mentioned it to her friends while you 2 were dating.
It's not something that she talks about now, too much time has passed.
That's usually a conversation in the beginning of your sexual relationship.
But if you're small, I'm sure she probably just kept her mouth shut and didn't say anything.
So I'm guessing your "little" secret is safe.
But remember this, sometimes the "big" guys can hurt us. So being "small" isn't a bad thing.
It all goes back to "how" you use it.
Truly and honestly ;)
2007-08-10 05:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on where your wife sets boundaries. For me I would never tell that kind of information to my friends or anyone else. What goes on in our bedroom stays in our bedroom and is no one else's business.
If my husband woudl feel uncomfortable about something I am telling people about our personal life, then I shouldn't say it. That's my rule of thumb. Unfortunately, some people think they should share everything with their friends though, where as I think that some things should be kept inside the marriage.
2007-08-10 05:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by nspir8ion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your wife.
Personally, I have one best friend with whom I discuss everything sexual. We share ideas and go "shopping" together (for our own marriages) at the adult store. As a woman in a great 11 year marriage, I have to say that it is nice to have another married woman to talk to about these kinds of things. We know all about each other's sex life- but not in a way that is humiliating to our spouses. I love my husband very much, and would never say anything about him or our life together that would make him feel uncomfortable if he heard it himself.
I hope that helps.
2007-08-10 05:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women tell their friend about their husbands size. My friends have no idea what my husband does for me in the bed.
Chances are your wife loves you (she did marry you right?) and realizes that by saying anything it may hurt you. Probably the same reason why it would hurt her if you talked about her genitals to all of your friends.
You should work on your self esteem. It is not about the size, but what you can do with it.
2007-08-10 06:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by lost in a world of confusion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually if you know the type of person your wife is, then that should be enough.
If she is the type that likes to make fun of people, make them feel insignificant and that they are worth nothing, then yes, they probably know.
However most women with some dignity and if they love their husband would never reveal such details. Its too private.
2007-08-10 05:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by lycanine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they know, maybe not. My best friend and I talk about a lot of stuff, including sex, but I don't recall ever asking her if her current partner was well endowed or not. However we're all pretty open and we've skinny dipped together so I've seen what he's got, but prior to that occuring we might talk about her sex life with him in general terms but not his penis size.
I've mentioned size to my friends some times(with re: to whom I was playing with) and sometimes not. It's not a given that it'll be shared and also what one person considers large or small, another might not. Some of it is perspective unless you are talking national or world average, and not personal experience average (size).
2007-08-10 05:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I doubt it. I don't share that with my girlfriends. You only share about ex boyfriends sizes. You never want your best friend to know what you got in the bed at night. It may tempt them to find out. I personally wouldn't tell my girlfriends anyways. I only tell them about my past guys privates
2007-08-10 05:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋