Suggest Viagra to husband?

Question

Ok, we have a good sex life but my husband isn't as young as he used to be (he's in his early 40's) and sometimes he's just not as "there" as he was in the past. I wonder if Viagra would bring things back to more like how they used to be. But I'm terrified of hurting his self-esteem if I suggest that he needs Viagra.

Don't get me wrong...this isn't an all the time thing. Last night he felt like a baseball bat! But it makes me want it like that all the time!

Any ideas on how I could suggest this without hurting his feelings? Is there any way I can get a "sample pack" or something like that to give to him? What do you think?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Well basically, there will almost always be something causing it. But instead of jumping to conclusions by self diagnosing him, why not just talk to him. Tell him you feel he is usually limp and ask if he ever felt so about himself?? if there are things on his mind that could affect him?? or if there is anything that interests him that he wants to do in bed?? etc. Basically, ask him what he feels, and from there, you can then say Viagra as one of the possible solutions that you both could consider But when you say it DONT press on it, js say it as gently as possible. The whole conversation should have a feeling of "We are in this together" NOT "Well its your fault, you are the one that doesnt get hard enough" and be as understanding as possible. From there, you'll get to a good conclusion.

Also, if he ends up agreeing to use Viagra, js tell him to see a doctor, cos Viagra is not meant for everybody or it could cause adverse effects or even death. A doctor will know the necessary tests to run n the necessary advice to give him about its usage. It may sound boring or wierd but you dont wanna find out you worsened a previous condition he had, or something of the sort by using Viagra.

Well, Goodluck

Answer 3

If you use his doctor and he has been in within the last year or two years, you may be able to get it for him. At least a sample for him. If not, ask him if he would like to try it and that you are interested in how it will affect your sex life. Tell him you would like to try it just once to see the outcome. If he refuses, then there is no way to be vague about it. You will have to come out and say it. My husband is like that when he takes certain medicines. It broke my heart the first time bc I though I wasnt turning him on anymore. He keeps saying he needs it, and I refuse to let him get it. However, he is quite large and if it isnt as hard as usual, it makes it a little more comfortable for me anyway. You could try herbal supplements or sex toys that enhance it. You could hide the herbal in his drink. They make rings that go around the base of his penis that is supposed to help it the way you are wanting. They also make creams and gels for it. Get some of those and just say it is lube....even if you have to put it in a lube bottle. I know it is deceitful, but it is better than him thinking he doesnt add up anymore. Good Luck.

Answer 4

It's kinda expensive if you buy it in the US. Yes, doctors do have sample packs. Some guys like Viagra and some like Cialis. Both work as advertised. They run around $4.00 to $5.00 per dose.

They make an excellent generic Cialis and Viagra in India. The price is amazing. How about 50 cents per dose! If you would like information on the company, let me know. you purchase online and delivery takes about 1 week to 10 days.

If you get them, trust me, he'll take 'em. It's not like you have to have a big conversation and topic of discussion. Give them to him and forget. Don't bring it up...he'll take em on his own. I don't even need them, but I'll pop one ever now and then. I'm 49 and still blow my load clear over my head.

Answer 5

Viagra is not a sex drive enhancer.

Read.

http://www.viagra.com

After 40, our ***** start working differently.

Is he still exercising regularly? Does he drink too much now and then? Stress? Those things all affect erections.

And what about your end of the bargain? Are you still exercising, staying willing and eager, being feminine, doing what turns both you and him on?

Enough of this "take a pill and it's fixed" bullsh*t mentality.

Good sex is hard work for everyone. Deal with it.

Answer 6

Drugs can cause some people to have some fairly severe reactions...Sometimes even death. Perhaps instead of recommending that he take drugs..you take him on walks and make sure he eats lots of oatmeal everyday to help keep his cholesterol levels way down. Make an appointment for him to go to the doctor for his yearly physical. He is probably due for a prostate exam if his "ability" is ... less. There are lots of reasons why a man might lose his ability in the sex dept. Do not ask about drugs. Instead..prove you love him by taking care of what he eats better ..and making sure he gets examined for the physical cause of the problem.

I mean come on, girl. What if the problem is serious? Get him to the doctor.

Answer 7

I wouldn't worry about his self esteem as much as I would about his physical health. That stuff can have dangerous side effects, especially if you have other health issues, which you can sometimes have and not even know about them until it's too late. But, if you insist, you can probably ask his doctor for a sample pack. My doctor once gave me a sample pack, but I never took any of 'em. It's turns out that I am fine sexually, just with the wrong woman instead...

Answer 8

I think you should talk it over with him; but you have to be aware that it is a VERY delicate topic -and men tend to feel like losers when this situation happens.

I think you will have to choose your words and tone of voice very carefully...The last thing you need is for him to take it the wrong way and feel like he's an inadequate lover !!!

You should also do some research and consult your doctor before he takes anything. There are always side effects....

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Drugs?

How about some manual or oral stimulation and if that can correct the issue skip the meds?

I honestly think we just want easy and will not actually work for results.

A little attention is generally all we need unless there are certain medical complications.

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