Is it a good idea to share your fantasy with your partner...?

Question

when the fantasy does not include them?

Answer 1

that depends on your relationship with your partner. if you both are secure in yourselves and your relationship, then go right ahead. my wife and i share our fantasies all the time, some of which do not include the other. that doesn't mean we act on them, they are just fantasies, and they can make your sex life crazy good if you can act them out with your partner. just make sure you both are comfortable with it.

Answer 2

Yes it is a good idea. The thing about fantasies is that they exist only in the mind. If you share your fantasy and talk about it, there is always the possibility that you and your partner can find a way to act out at least some it, or in some cases all of it.

By sharing these types of thoughts, you open up a communication level that will bring you closer together and could lead to some awesome "play times".

Answer 3

I would talk to him about my fantasies, but i'll definitely leave out the detail of with whom it is. Personally i have good experience of sharing my fantasies with my boyfriend.
You could try taking him or putting him in the position you fantasize about, and then communicate about it. It will help boost your sexual relationship for sure.

Answer 4

It kinda depends.

I think its normal to talk about celebrities and stuff like that. Would you really be hurt if your husband said he thought Angelina Jolie was hot? Do you think he would be hurt if you told him you thought Brad Pitt was hot? I think lots of couples talk about that stuff.

But it would be pretty different if you said "yeah, that 19 year old kid from next door looks really good mowing the lawn without his shirt on. I can tell from his tight shorts that he's got a full basket. I'd love to teach him some love lessons for sure!" I don't think your husband would like that too much.

Answer 5

It really depends on the fantasy. Most men would take in their stride if they understand you well enough, but if the relationship hasn't lasted for that long, its best to keep it to yourself..especially if you know he is the jealous type.

Answer 6

I think a lot depends on the personality of the partner. Are they jealous and insecure or easily offended? If you think he is understanding and would realize that it's not personal, I think it's great to share! But if you believe they will feel left out, maybe best to keep it to yourself. It's totally a judgement call depending on who is going to be listening.

Answer 7

good question in a "marriage and DIVORCE" section.

if ur partner have the capability and enough faith on u to take it as an fantasy then its k else hell don't ever dream of sharing it.

Answer 8

I hve always wanted to share my fantasy with my wife but she on the other hand does not like sharing those sort of things. Now a fantasy to me is not perverted & nasty, or threesome wife swapping or husband swapping. I thin she has them it is she does not share them with me or is way to imbarsed to talk about them. I would love to talk to her about our love making what she like or didn't like, do things with her but with no other.

Answer 9

I would say no, especially if it includes another person of the same sex as your partner. That's only going to make them feel inadequate in fulfilling your desires

Answer 10

If it included me, then yes, but if it did not include me, then no because me being the self-conscious person that I am....part of me would want to know but yet for the most part, no i would not want to know...It would just hurt me, thinking that they wanted someone else more than me.