If your friends, or the people around you, find a guy attractive does that make them even more desirable to you? I have noticed that if one girl out of the group is attracted to someone, then all of a sudden the whole group wants him as well. Would you say that my observation is pretty accurate?
2007-08-10 05:06:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I have actually done an experiment with this. I have had one of my really good looking (girl) friends go to a club and pretend like she doesn’t know me but is really attracted to me. Once the other girls in the club see that, then they all of a sudden start acting more interested in me even though just an hour ago they were not paying any attention to me.
2007-08-10 05:18:19 · update #1
Girls likes to compete, yes you're very accurate. Fortunately I'm not one.
2007-08-10 05:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by 結縁 Heemei 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. I sometimes have no idea why my friends are attracted to the guys they're attracted too. It is nice to get the nod of approval from your friends though. But I don't want to try to compete for a guy's attention. I wouldn't know if I was doing it because I liked him or because I just wanted to beat my friends.
2007-08-10 12:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lillith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends. There are plenty of ppl that may find one guy attractive, and I don't. But sometimes when one of my friends sees someone as attractive, I eventually start to see it too. But it could be for different reasons, maybe their personality or something along those lings brings out the attractiveness.
2007-08-10 12:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ambi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually i will. Its psychological and strange. Because when my friend likes this bag for example, i like it too. When she thinks a guy is attractive and is all over him in the halls etc. then as a friend, i may start to see him the same way (but not always, i mean, it depends on what i think about him).
So its almost like a jealousy thing, but not really.
2007-08-10 12:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not accurate at all. I've never agreed with even just one friend or relative when it comes to surface attraction of a guy. We are all individuals so we like different things.
This applies to guys, fashion, materialistic items, etc.
In fact, if one of my friends is interested in a chap, he's off limits to me b/c her friendship is too important for me to reduce myself to competing for his favor.
I also tend to find that men that the media says are goodlooking are not to my taste.
2007-08-10 12:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Buttercup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the male pheromones that are excreted by a man, if they attract one girl in the room it would also attract the rest of them. One girl may just sense it quicker.
2007-08-10 12:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by Gma Joan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if it is a group of mindless followers! ALL my friends told me my husband wasn't attractive enough for me. I didn't care, I married him anyways and 11 years later am still married to him and very happy.
2007-08-10 12:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i would actually the majority of my female friends are like that then they sit there all day talkin about the random stranger they have now named calcum (coz apperently he looks like one) and how much they like him and want to be with him
i used to think they were losing it and needed to find someone to actually be with but now i know other peopel do it to
lol
2007-08-10 12:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea pretty much because if that guy chooses me out of all of them my friends would be jealous but happy for me
2007-08-10 12:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by for the pursuit of happiness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes. actually they usually truly are attractive.
2007-08-10 12:09:59 · answer #10 · answered by karen i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋