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My friend Cathy texted my friend Joe. She said, "Do you think Annie[me] is pretty?" And he replied "No **** she's HOT" then she was like "do you like her?" then he said "idk :)" then she said "well you should ask her out because you would look really cute together" Then he said "ok i will on sunday"

This would be my first bf. How does boys ask girls out? and what do I say back? I want to go out with him.....=]

2007-08-10 04:17:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

19 answers

I have no idea what he will say to you, but just say "yes, i would love to go out with you" Just be cute and smile and you will be fine...

2007-08-10 04:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by brandym8099 2 · 3 0

If he asks you out, just say yes. It's that simple! To start a conversation, you can ask him where you will be going on your date and will he pick you up or meet you there and what time he had in mind.
This way you will know what you' re going to do and dress accordingly.

If I was you, I would wait and see how the first date went before calling him my boyfriend. One date doesn't always mean there will be another one! I'm just saying this so you won't get your hopes up that it will lead to a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. It doesn't always turn out that way so be prepared just in case.

I wish you luck and I hope you have fun!

2007-08-10 11:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by WilmaF 5 · 0 0

you sound very sweet.

i agree with the other people who say it will come naturally...i hope he asks you in person, b/c that might be more thrilling and memorable.

you can answer simply and honestly, "i'd really like to go out with you", or "sure that sounds like fun."

by the way, it sounds like you are just going to go on a date, you don't have to decide that he's going to be yr boyfriend yet...

also, he says y're "hot" and that's kind of a sexy word...which is fine...but remember to respect your own desires and bounderies, don't do anything you're not comfortable with.
really it's not worth it.

Tangent that may or may not apply to you: and of course be SAFE when you are ready to have sex someday with someone. i don't know, you might be really young and not thinking about sex yet at all, but talking about a first boyfriend requires that you talk about sex, even if you don't do it with him, or for a long while.

have fun getting asked out and you'll do great!

:)

2007-08-10 11:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by my oh my 2 · 0 0

Just wait for him to ask you. Always try to appear on a level with him, guys have trouble dealing with girls who are too girly. Just stay calm, don't embarrass him in any way or you'll harm his courage. Also, don't say anything prematurely just because you happen to know what he's planning through a third party. Wait until he brings up the subject, then say yes in a calm and realistic manner.

2007-08-10 11:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

well i am guessing you are a little bit young around like 13 or 14, and at that age the guy will probably be nervous as can be. And all he will do is say "will you go out with me" then if you do want to go out with him say "YES!" then it will be a little awkward for the rest of the day but then it will be fun.

2007-08-10 11:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Frizzel 1 · 0 0

i remember the first time i was asked out. the guy came right out and said "would you go out with me?" so maybe joe will say that or he could say "hey you want to hang out some time?" or "you want to get together and see a movie or something?" or "you want to be my girlfriend?" and you could respond with something like "sure," "yes," or "yea that'd be fun." those are just some of the things you could say. its really not that hard.

2007-08-10 15:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Fallen Angel, sweety I am 47 and a shy disabled shut in so I have no clue as to what people do. Personaly though I would say just be direct and honest ! I will say a prayer for you!

2007-08-10 15:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0 0

lol aww your nervous;
well it depends most boys will be straight forward and either say "will you go out with me?" or "will you be my girlfriend". but it all depends on the boy he might want to get to know you first; maybe take you out on a date. or he might be shy himself and ask you over the internet or phone. but since you really like him just be yourself and whatever happens,happens.

good luck.

2007-08-10 11:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by dreuxluver4alwayz 2 · 1 0

Um..a guy usually is like "Be my g/f?" or "would you go out with me?" and say yes obviously..lol..but..dont be clingy..because guys dont like that at all..just..be cool..let him make first moves..just stay cool about it..dont seem too eager :D
enjoy

2007-08-10 11:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by megan s 2 · 0 0

Aw sweet! All I can say is good luck and just be yourself! Don't be too worried about what he will say or how you have to respond, it will all come naturally!

2007-08-10 11:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by MOMMYtoJAKES 3 · 0 0

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