Please, no joke answers or answers from guys, who obviously don't know the answer. Does it hurt to have sex your first time? Or, any time for that matter?
2007-08-10 03:39:57 · 10 answers · asked by Tina 5 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There can be pain when the hymen breaks upon penatration. There can also be some blood. For me there was no blood, but a lot of pain, so much so that we didn't even really get started the first time.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
When you're turned on, the uterus and cervix rise, lengthening the vaginal tube. When his penis penetrates, the walls of the vagina stretch to accommodate the difference.
For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated -- like the guy is in a hurry, doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
2007-08-10 04:55:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will mainly depend upon you and your partner, it may not hurt one bit. It hurt me the first time and many times after that. It was to the point that my guy thought it would never feel good to me. Side note is that it does feel good now, but if we go a while detween times it hurts again (never as much as in the beginning). I do not mean to scare you, you will probubly think it feels great. Just make sure that your guy is sensitive to the fact that it might hurt.
2007-08-10 03:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by NiKeTi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
These answers are all right, except it can also hurt if there is something physically wrong with you like an abnormal shaped pelvis bones or endometrosis. So if those are true then it will hurt everytime until you can get medical help.
2007-08-10 04:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by hopespringsanew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, in my case it did hurt and I was bleeding and everything, but it goes away the more u do it, and specially is u are lubricated it hurts so much less or don't hurt at all.
2007-08-10 04:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Haidee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does hurt the first time. Also it may hurt anytime depending on how big the guy is and what u are used to.
2007-08-10 03:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by Candie137 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
every woman is different, sometimes it hurts a little bit and is quickly over, sometimes it hurts alot, and some times it doesn't hurt at all. Just hope your first partner is considerate and gentle.
2007-08-10 03:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes it really does hurt. normally your first couple of times will be sensitive but the first time can be quite painful.
2007-08-10 03:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by MotherTeresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ranges from a bruised feeling to painful depending on size and whether or not your partner is gentle.
2007-08-10 03:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by ravenlenore13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love the guy and he makes you comfortable and doesnt rush it, it shouldnt hurt to much. Make sure he loves you also!
2007-08-10 03:45:40 · answer #9 · answered by browneyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first few minutes yes...
2007-08-10 03:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by Kayla 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋