and not best friends??? I have a guy bff that i went out with a few times and kissed him, we broke up but now i have a feeling in my gut like i dont wanna be friends anymore! When we start schoool what should i do? I mean he is a guy and he sits with all girls at lunch and loks in out bags (Pisses us off cuz ya kno tampons and pads) but he acts like he has man pms!!!!!!! He is supe annying and suff.. he acts like a 5 year old!!! How do u tell him to sit with his guy buds and thatr we should just be friends not bffs??? HELP!!!
I told him this before and he keeps doing it what do i do????
2007-08-10 02:57:00 · 11 answers · asked by this screaming inside my head 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
well when you are telling somone some bad news, always say good things first. but dont say UGHH your so annoying, that never helps. try saying, well when you do ____ it really gets on my nerves because ______, i really love having a friend as great as you but id really appreciate if you could make it EVEN better. I really want to be friends but i need a break now because you have changed, i need you to be the guy i want to be friends with, because i do.
try to go easy, dont be harsh or rude. another thing is you dont need to be bffs, just slowly inch away, cancel ur daily plans with him for other people maybe, youll find a new best friend, when school starts new, you will have classes apart and chances are he might even find a new friend.
i hope this helps
2007-08-10 03:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by remy_h_park 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it for now. He'll calm down as he gets older - generally, boys are a good year or two behind girls in terms of maturity.
But don't burn a bridge you might want to cross back over. In other words, don't tell someone you don't want to be friends with them - you never know how time will change your feelings.
2007-08-10 03:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by Durga sings the classics 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one thing that you do not want to do is take them out on a happy friend date because that is not what they are going to think which will make them think you like them. and another thing is do not do it on the phone because that is a really pethic thing to do. so you just call them over and tell them peacefully what you want to happen. if they do get emotional then you know that you did get there hopes down but it is what you think will be best so do it.
2007-08-10 03:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha. permit him believe what he needs. yet, interior the olden days, human beings might placed on those huge neclace form issues that had the finished hebrew alphabet with a stone next to it, and while they talked to God he might respond with the aid of letting flashes of sunshine mirror off the stone so as that it might spell issues. thats what i remember besides. thats from the bible. dont do something to disillusioned your chum besides. religious debates can get somewhat undesirable. who is familiar with? possibly he does have a telephone that we could him communicate over with God. and yet in a various way you may tak to him is with the aid of prayer. buuuttttt, in case you wanted to speak to God, why might there be telephone wires?! and that i dont think of heaven is somewhat interior the universe. God doesnt desire telephone wires! He can do something! i like him plenty. love, alice.
2016-11-11 22:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He *can't* sit with the guys because they will beat the crap out of that pansy. Sorry, but looks like you're stuck with him unless you just tell him to piss off.
2007-08-10 03:02:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't tell him, just stop hanging out with him as much and make other guy friends too, then he will make other female friends and hang with the guys more often.
2007-08-10 03:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if i were you i would go sit with his guy friends and see if he follows you maybe them guys will hook up!!!
2007-08-10 03:02:30 · answer #7 · answered by jen m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him!
2007-08-10 05:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and eventually he will get the hint
2007-08-10 03:00:23 · answer #9 · answered by bowsgirl1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say...
"I think we should just be friends."
2007-08-10 03:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ron B. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋