If women had it their way, would you want/marry more than one man?

Question

I think for men, the answer would be yes! If the men had it their way, they would always want/marry more than one women. :) Want to hear your opinions. :)

Answer 1

Very interesting AJAY I do not believe that all men or women for that matter feels this way about marrying more then one person.......I think because both my parents were married three times I am jaded to these kind of relationships!!!! Your either free single and casually dating someone or you are in a commited relationship with just one person of your choosing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I think having multiple relationships can really mess up your head and well being why would you want to do that yo yourself!!! I would only want to Marry once hahehe until death do us Part I take life Extremely serious and that is how it is!!!!!!!!!!!! of course we can like and love more then one person it is human nature but I think it can be difficult with too many possibilites and relationships...................

Answer 2

Because there are some women out there (and men too), that see a person in a relationship as a challenge. They feel like if they can sway someone from their marriage or their relationship, then they have accomplished something that not everyone can do by wanting and going after someone they can't have. It's all an ego thing and it is a bad thing because they are helping break up some else's relationship or cause trouble, and if you actually cave in to these predators, then you're as much to blame for wrecking your happy home. If you're being tempted, then there is obviously something wrong with your relationship. Focus on your marriage and help change it for the better, otherwise get a divorce and don't hurt anyone by betraying them. EDIT: There will always be people that will approach you. It's about having self control, we all have it. If you put more attention on your wife and your marriage then why these women are coming up to you, then I think you'll have a better time ignoring them. Plus a woman trying to tempt a man from his relationship lacks respect, you shouldn't want a woman like that. Good luck.

Answer 3

I think that men who say that may not have a real sense of what is entailed in partnership/marriage. Many men want multiple sexual partners, but think that women (as portrayed by the media) sit docilely in a cupboard until the man activates them.

If you've ever been in a long-term committed partnership, think of all the issues that arise between just 2 people; how much more to resolve with more!

Any partnership involving more people is more complex to maintain, logistically and emotionally.

I will stick with only one b/c that's all I have the resources for.

Answer 4

No. For personal reasons of old school values, but if I had no values or convictions, I would still say no because having one is hard enough.

I don't wanna cook, and clean for 3 or 4

Answer 5

I think the only way that would work bud, is if the man was Military Solider who had full command of his women.
Like a muslim man.
That thought alone sickness me.
Women aren't cattle.

Answer 6

No I would not! Been married once & will never do it again!

Answer 7

No Way....one is enough..i love him with all my heart but two??? NONONO

Answer 8

no way....I don't even want one...been there done that...and never again.....I don't need someone trying to run my life.....

Answer 9

no........ that would be very hard to handle, i like it better with one man.

Answer 10

Um..no. My one husband is enough. I'm STILL sore....