2007-08-09 21:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by Blue_Blur 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Twice divorced usually means he didn't figure out what went wrong the first time. Why would that make him a "bad" man? Maybe he just picked "bad" women both times.
2007-08-09 21:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by onebigfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not! I am very close to my second divorce but not quite. My first marriage I let pride convince me to marry and it turned out we were both too young and after a few months of good times, life began settling in, but she wasn't ready and had numerous affairs while I was in school or work. After waiting, I found a good one, had kids, and after 19 yrs discovered that she couldn't say no any longer to advances of others and she was caught in an affair. Still working on a fix but it is hard.
So you have to look at the circumstances and the person. Life teaches alot of hard lessons and you can only hope to learn from them. There will not be a number 3.
2007-08-09 23:37:10 · answer #2 · answered by n2dfyrigo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been divorced twice....it happens. I settled two times with women I convinced myself were "the ones". I'm young so I still have the rest of my life to find the right one - Two divorces doesnt make you a bad guy, just a hard learner..lol
2007-08-09 23:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by Never Regret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you are doing some judging here. Are you perfect? No I didn't think so. He isn't either, but there are a lot of nice people out there who happened to be twice divorced. Ask him about it, listen to everything he says and think about it carefully. What he says about it all will tell you what kind of man he is.
2007-08-09 21:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important to evaluate you before getting into any relationship. You have to decide what it is that you want. Stand back and see if there is a negative pattern you have. Once you recognize it, work at not repeating the same thing again. Strive for positive things and that's what you will get out of a relationship. Be real to the other person and to yourself. You are what you think. Your thoughts become things.
2007-08-09 22:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jus2Sexy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sort of...women can see that there's a pattern...whether it was you who divorced your wives or other way round...they would speculate that either your wives left you because you're hard to live with or that you divorced them because you cant be patient and be happy with your wife...sorry...i guess you can try to be really, really nice to a girl you like so she would wonder why those women divorced you when you are a nice person...and so she would give you a chance
2007-08-09 21:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by geisha 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it makes you a bad man.. Maybe you should just live with the next one for a few years before you make another huge commitment.
2007-08-09 22:02:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absoultely not, just bad choices, or too trusting, or any number of things could have been his situation. You need to look at the situations without judging.
2007-08-09 22:06:02 · answer #8 · answered by Linda K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't mean bad man, but I wouldn't want to be Wife Three.
2007-08-10 03:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men that are divorced twice is bad. i am divorced twice and it was of my choosing. i had bad exes. so im npt bad guy.
2007-08-09 21:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋