how can i ask my...........???????????????

Question

my mom that i need to by a bra. i don't wear any but i only wear camis with built in bras and were going shopping today at 9:30am and i can't find the confidence to ask her while were at the store. i mean i was just bout to ask my sister but i felt like belch and i felt like there was a HUGE knot in my stomach. i still have the knot(not litarlary) but i still have it in my stomach. i mean i am only eleven. and i want to wear one cause whenever I'm about to take a shower i look in the mirror and i jump up and down and they jiggle. i only have buds thoguh. i just started to bloom but you can still notice them. how can i build the confidence in 6 hours?? please help me

Answer 1

This is your momma we are talking about, here. Try just asking straight out. Her ears aren't going to fall off, and you won't croak in the process. Just tell her you would like to have a training bra or two, because you are feeling self conscious about things. Your mother will understand completely. Moms have a way of doing that. Your life is getting ready to change in lots of ways, and you should get used to the idea of talking to your mom about a lot of things. No point in feeling embarassed here. This is the same lady that changed your diapers and over saw your bathing the first part of your life. She already knows where all your parts are, including the ones nobody else has seen. Mom is your best source of information and help, so take advantage of it. Just pipe up and put it plain. You'd like a bra, and you'd like her to help you pick out a nice one.

Answer 2

I was the same with my mum and I was 11. I was looking through a catalog and was like " Can I these please there really nice" But she said I didn't need a bra. But on a Saturday we went into M&S and brought a couple of pairs. I mean i have resently started at high school so she understood because you no all the other girls were wearing them. Once you ask her then you dont have to ask her again because she will no that your talking about bras. And when you no your size and need a new one just ask your mum for some money for some more underwear. Wear them 3 days max then put them in the wash. And you sound like a 32/34 AA or A I was a 30 AA lol but anyway good luck and tell us how it went.

Answer 3

First of all mom is like a friend so dont hesistate while asking her anything. BE FRANK with her N moreover u r only of 11 n i don't think u need brathis time As this is puberty period so they will grow by time but this is not the right time 2 wear. And if u want than u can talk 2 ur mother as they can tell u better but ask without any hesitation.

Answer 4

While ya'll are shopping and are in the girls' underwear section, you have to try on clothes anyway, right? Just start picking up several bras and placing them in your arms, 2-3 of the small and medium sized (start with smaller size), even sport bras- then head to the dressing room. Try each one on and when you find one comfortable, ask mom to come in and see what she thinks; extoll to her how comfortable the bra feels. She knows growing pains, she has been there before.

Answer 5

When you are driving to the store you can say something like, "Mom, can we go to the section of the store where the bras are? I would like to see what one looks like".

Answer 6

When ur mum asks if u need anything, just be like, yeh i need new underwear it doesnt fit anymore. and see what she says and just quickly slip th question in when she gets to the cami section :)

Good Luck

xxx

Answer 7

when you go to the stoor, tell her you need new underwear. pretend to notice a bra and say "oh thats cute" or something indicating you like it. im sure your mom will get the hint that you want one and suggest that you try it on. good luck!

Answer 8

dont worry so much

believe me your mom is waiting for you to ask .....she knows you will need to get your first bra sooner or later so just tell her you think its time ...........

say.......

mom , i think its time for me to get a bra



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