I have never really had a boyfriend, and I am 20. A guy likes me, but my friends think he is creepy, and I don't know what to think now. Besides the fact he isn't my usually fantasy type, he is pretty low key and we had an almost normal conversation. But I have this idea of the perfect guy in my head, but now that I have gotten to know him, I wouldn't mind being friends with him. I guess my question is, if my whole heart isn't into it, is it bad to think about dating him... not being in a relationship... but... er I am so bad at this. I just want love to be easier you know... and I am tired of being single... I just want to know what it is like to date. The guy really likes me... or seems to at least. He persued me before school ended and we had a chance meeting outside the library. I just don't know if this is the right thing, part of me wants to listen to my friends, the other part wants to at least try it out. Don't know what to do? It sucks being single.
2007-08-09 21:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Alexis Plancings 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
online friend ..
does it do ?
2007-08-09 21:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by more m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out and talk,have coffee or something,talk to him alot about general subjects,find out what makes him tick.Keep it on a friendly basis see if you two have anything in common,watch his reaction to differant situations, then if you think you can enjoy being around him stay with him,but if he asks for sex right away or soon after then you know he only wants one thing, good luck.Also bring him around your friends and ask there opinion about him.
2007-08-10 07:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation..i never had a boyfriend neither..im 21 and this guy asked me out...he has a heart of gold, but im not attracted to him at all. but he is so nice and i dont know what to do cause i know my friends, they r really shallow and they will judge me if i go out with him..they know im the priettiest and i always brag about being with the perfect dude..i dont wanna b laughed at.... i just figured i will date him to make him happy but nothin extra..im kina gettin depressed cause all the guys dat approach me r the wrong ones, they never have what im looking for....i think im just gonna keep on waitin..but gosh when is mr. right gonna meet me, cause im ready when he is!
2007-08-10 05:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your problem is two fold.
One, you care too much what your friends think (probably about everything).
Two, I am 99 percent sure that when it comes to men, you are waaaaay too picky. You have fantasy men, but you don't date??? What are you waiting for? Does he need to have shining armor and a white horse?
Casual dating... try it. Don't be afraid.
2007-08-10 09:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Joe G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the Creepy guy have a big soul...give him a chance
stop looking the perfect guy...choosing to expect the ideal
person you will get old and single
2007-08-10 04:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by Blue_Blur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into a career. Enjoy life and yourself because once you are in a relationship, you are thru with enjoying all of you without no limits....for reals though.
2007-08-10 04:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u should give him a chance
and do what u want not what ur friends tell u to
2007-08-10 04:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to go out with him, do so, dont worry what ur friends think, do for you, no one else will, including your friends. good luck
2007-08-10 04:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with him, spend his money. If you don't like him DUMP him. Get a new one, repeat the entire process again.
2007-08-10 04:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by Flying Soldier 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋