2007-08-09 19:46:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no...love doesn't come wit the condition tat if u don't hav ur love one around u keep weeping....u might love some1 more than urself but that doesn't mean u weep....true love remains in the heart....u remember ur love 24/7 although ur love is not around,weepin doesn'tr show extra love
2007-08-09 20:05:41 · answer #1 · answered by binz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you cant really call it that. Some people grieve for a long time after loosing a spouse. Crying is healing, it helps you get over being angry, frustrated, hurt, and afraid. You see if you cry people will be more likely to actually help you than if you want to talk about the one you lost.(Cause that makes them uncomfortable-the talking part) After a while the crying has to stop and you have to move on. Even though that person is gone, you have the memories and what is in your heart left and those should make you happy not sad.
2007-08-10 03:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, It seems to be more of a case of self pity and reluctance to move out of the comfort zone than grief. I am not being harsh. but many years is too long to grieve unles you are planning of slow suicide. you have a life so does others around you and so does the departed soul. unless we accept the passing away of a person - how can the soul be at peace and move on?
how long do we expect people who love us who are alive to see us kill oursleves slowly and take it? dont you think its selfish on our part to do that?
Human life is gods best gift. why are we wasting it the way like this? there are many people who are given only few days / months / years to live. why waste when we have the time to do something meanful? why destroy something beautiful?
above all what right do we have to destroy gods creation - US - be being uselless and dwelling in grief? make use of the energy , the grief to help others thus you will out grow it.
2007-08-12 16:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way Na na na na not at all.
True love is something that cannto be explained and written somewhere, true love is not in stories or poems that someone might have written just by getting attracted to some beautiful girl.
In a simple way--- if you like someone and care for them you may not be there in their happier times when they were smiling but you surely be there to help them stand up when they fall or if yoy are far away from them you miss them and miss them a lot.
Thats all i can say If I say one more word I could cry as I am far far away from the love of my life.
2007-08-10 15:00:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother in-law is a widow since many years and she did not get over the lost of her husband and she cries many times... she got a depression and feels sick and sometimes she doesn´t even like to go on living.
Well, I suppose, when you really loved somebody truly during long years, struggling and fighting to make a better life for your children and so on... it´s not rare, to feel as if they cut "half of you off" when your partner dies...
2007-08-10 09:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you are some way correct.True love never dies.It is a feeling in our heart cant be taken away easily.But i think remembering him is good but crying for him means,yes by crying the pain in our heart goes away but how many years?.There must be a stop for tears,but remember him in her heart.I think if true love is there it is to be like that only.
2007-08-10 02:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by $ Diablo $ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about those women who don't make any outward show of sorrow but keep the memories of their loved husbands alive in their hearts in dignified silence? What also about those wives who make an outward pretence of sorrow just for exhibiting it to outsiders? And for all you know, they might be doing that with selfish motives in their minds. I don't agree with the premise of your question.
2007-08-10 14:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love means never having to say you are sorry and also to go without so he/she could have. If you loose someone it is natural to grief but in time you learn to live with and accept that loss
2007-08-10 02:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by cheri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true love is missing the other but having so much love in your heart that not only do you cry ,you can smile because you can remember the happiness you shared and the joy they put in your heart.
2007-08-10 08:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not love. That's a failure to adjust to the new situation. The person needs psychological help.
2007-08-10 07:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋