Problem cannot be solved?!!!?

Question

I don't know. I've been in this country for more than 8 years and cannot make friends. One main problem there is, I do not see many people from my own ethnic background. Obviously, white people cannot be friends :S

People advised for me to go back or goto a country where you can find your own type of people and have peace of mind! Unfortunately, its too late for that.

I need to find alternative ways to find people, I guess, but I am pretty sure that, white people or any ethnic backgrounds which are different, will not help.

U can say, I don't have much friends and obviously, don't have any girls or girlfriends. I am looking for Bangladeshi girls, here, in this country, but obviously don't see any around :S.

I don't know whats the solution, here. What can be done to make friends, regardless of ethnic backgrounds or race problems? I really don't care where that human is BORN IN. He/she is still human, is the main thing! The other query is, where can I find Bangladeshi people

Answer 1

What do you mean, "White people cannot be friends"??? What's wrong with us?

There are organizations where you would be most welcome. One would be the Ethical Society, if there is one in your city. Another would be any cultural group, such as a historical society or a museum volunteers group, and so on. Check with the library, and don't be afraid to ask questions. They know about social activities in your area.

But don't buy the idea that most American whites are racist: they are actually a minority, at least outside the deep South. And today, I think probably even in the south they are a minority, although they may be more open about their bigotry.

I would find a Bangladeshi an interesting person to get to know. Are you near St. Louis, Missouri? We have an Ethical Society here, and I am a member. We would welcome you warmly.

Answer 2

Relationship are very important to have; not the superficial relationship where there is no depth to it, but the relationship that there is a very closeness to it. This is very hard to find in this day society; where everybody want to keep to themselves. How do we begin to build these bridges between these gaps? Even in the crowd we are alone, even at these function we are alone. Everybody just want to go with their own clique. Only true friendship comes with a few. Even a bad relationship would be better than no relationship.