Ok, so my first date with this hot girl didn't go well.. I need advice. She cut the date short and then texts me 7 messages talking about how she felt it went wrong.. stating that it was me who wasn't talking or anything, but she barely said a few words too.
Well I asked her if there was physical attraction... she didn't answer me really. She said that would be decided if we had a next date. She said she wanted to friends if nothing else.... She said there was chemistry and I have a great personality but was holding back tonight... we only talked on the phone, never met.
What does this mean? Fact she mentioned "friends" aint good...
2007-08-09 18:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by andrew a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont think she's feeling the attraction..besides, just the fact that she blames you for the bad date is a sign that she's not feeling it. You should move on. It kind of sounds like she's kind of mean and she's not willing to try hard enough to make a date work. I'm sure there's better girls out there. And the fact that she said 'friends' is not good, because just telling you straight out that there was not romantic connection and she just wants to be your friend. good luck!
2007-08-09 18:59:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You had a phone conversation, not a date. A date involves a living breathing person in the same room with you, maybe having dinner or watching a movie.
How can there be physical attraction with a fantasy? Please do yourself a favor and get off the phone, and the computer and concentrate on real live girls. There is nothing hot about a girl who critiques your date.
2007-08-10 02:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say it like this, but she sounds like annoying b* who doesn't know what she wants. She wants you to fall in love with her head over heels and them maybe she'll decide to have a date with you. She has no self-esteem, otherwise why send 7 messages after she cut the first date short. Forget about her, find someone who has their head straight.
2007-08-10 02:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Everybody's Favorite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It mean just that...she does not see you as a Boyfriend but just a friend...she is not rude and doesn't want to hurt feelings...if you are looking for romance, you should keep looking
2007-08-10 02:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by missyj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds too high maintance
2007-08-10 01:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by I need a time out 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋