Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year and a half, so we are in a serious relationship. i wanted to know if it sounds like i dress slutty and if what he said was right.
heres what i wear...
TOPS: i wear band t-shirts(guys size small), spagethi straps, and tank tops. all of them i wear a sweater over all the time.
BOTTOMS: i wear jeans, but i sew them to be tighter than skinny jeans (not around the butt part, but at the ankles)
and yes of course i always underwear and a bra.
Does the way i dress seem slutty or is he wrong for saying that?
heres some pics, you judge if i look the part of a slut just the clothes, not the poses. i dont have any full body pics, so this was the best i could do, just put all the shirts with my type of pants and thats what i dress like.
http://i10.tinypic.com/669bodv.jpg"
http://i16.tinypic.com/6gt8wtz.jpg"
http://i12.tinypic.com/6b9mzcm.jpg"
http://i11.tinypic.com/53qhz86.jpg"
2007-08-09 18:51:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
no you're not.
and you're way out of his league. get a new boyfriend who is not only nicer but cuter as well.
2007-08-09 18:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Koosher 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I know I'm going to sound like an asss if I get this wrong, but...
You don't sound, look, or appear to be a slutt. You look like you're looking for approval constantly and that you want people to be pleased with you, particularly you want your boyfriend to appreciate you. You also seem open minded and optimistic- you don't have a closed mind or heart. Maybe the kind of person that likes to say something once and be done with it and you probably don't like to repeat yourself. Perhaps still immature and childish, not necessarily in a bad sense, but you still have yet to grow into a woman. Identity means a lot to you, and you don't want to have a bad one. But at the end of it, you come first in your life, yet you'll always consider those who you care about..
That's not slutty. Usually slutty girls are a lot more simple than that. There's a lot more to you then that. And you've been with this guy for a long time, so obviously you can commit. But you should always be open to change since you're still young, and you're boyfriend may not know you all that well if he openly thinks of you as a slutt.
2007-08-09 19:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, the pics showed mostly your face and that was not slutty at all. You boyfriend probably likes you a lot and knows that other boys his age see harmless dress like blues jeans the way adults see naked people. Boys his age are totally crazed and the way you dress in those pictures is enough for a teen boy to go nutty, but that is not your problem and it is not slutty.
You are cute, probably my daughter's age. You look like that girl raven if she were much prettier.
2007-08-09 19:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Slutty? No. Trashy? A little. The inseam of those jeans looks awful. You are a beautiful girl...why don't teenagers see that skinny jeans are GROSS!!! Seriously, they are to 2007 what acid washed jeans were to 1987. If that guy in your pic is your BF then he is not worth stressing over sweetie. Seriously, in just a few short years you will see how far out of his league you really are. Keep your head up;)
2007-08-09 19:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, i think you're not!!! Bsing from the pics, I think the way you dress is just normal. You're not even showing a lot of skin!!! Makes me wonder, how does you bf define slutty?? Dump him if he doesn't like the way you dress. Why would you go for someone who doesn't like and accept the way you are???
2007-08-09 18:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by nedeacserolf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump that dude. No your clothes don't seem slutty at all. He TOTALLY disrespected you & got out of line. If a guy tells you what you can & can't wear or tries to judge you based on what you wear, then that's 1 of the signs of an abusive relationship.
2007-08-09 18:56:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, I don't there's any problem with the way you're dressing (by the way, you look gorgeous - really!) Maybe you should ask your boyfriend what kind of style he likes and what makes he think you're 'slutty'...
2007-08-09 18:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by LGG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your just worried about your clothes, then no, I wouldnt consider that slutty. However, how you dress has nothing to do with wether you are slutty or not. Unless you are sleeping around or making out with every stranger you see, you are probably not slutty.
2007-08-09 18:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by Christine 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what he meant NICELY if it really bothered you.
did he say "Dress slutty" or "are slutty"
Former: maybe he means hair, make-up, clothing, facial expressions. while you don't dress slutty if you look at everything seperately, the image you present is far from innocent, is it?
Latter: maybe he means attitude, facial expression, behavior around other boys as well?
2007-08-09 18:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by M 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're fully clothed in well fitting clothes. That is not what I'd call slutty. I think a better question is whether or not your boyfriend is starting to feel intimidated by your ability to look as good as you do to other guys.
2007-08-09 18:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
1.) You don't look slutty... Emphasis on the "look".
2.) A good boyfriend never ever calls his girlfriend slutty. Period.
3.) You took the 2nd and 4th picture on my birthday!
2007-08-09 18:56:58 · answer #11 · answered by Moonie 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋