I was married for 9 years. When we arrived to US, he let me for his first wife. He didn't want to get me the sign to finish the legal process because he told me he didn't want to let me go.
2007-08-09 18:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by Irene C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you aren't divorced from him, get a divorce. He is a player. He will just break your heart. Let her have him, he will cheat on her again.
2007-08-09 18:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So he left you for his first wife and he won't sign the divorce papers because he doesn't want to let you go ?!?!?!
There's alot of ways to get a divorce without his signature. He doesn't want to let you go because if it doesn't work out with his first wife he will be crawling back to you..Don't contact your husband....Seek legal counsel specially if there are kids involve. Get on with your life and don't let him back into yours.
2007-08-10 01:50:56 · answer #2 · answered by lvchic_702 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he and Ex? then theew is no need to talk to him if you are still married.... finish the legal process......get a divorce sounds like he is just more trouble, Talk as little as necessary to him to avoid fights.
2007-08-10 01:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by littlerascal711 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
contact him and get a divorce straight away .... all he's trying to do is own you and stop you from moving on (without the divorce you can't)...if he say's no take the loser to court and they will make him ... do it now so that you can move on and start you life again
2007-08-10 01:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I AM NOT SURE WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. WHAT LEGAL PROCESS...A DIVORCE HE NEVER GOT. YOU CAN FILE ON YOUR OWN...JUST TELL THE LAWYER AND JUDGE THAT YOU DO NOT KNOW WHERE HE IS AND IT WILL GO THRU ANYWAY. YOU DON'T NEED HIS PERMISSION TO GET A DIVORCE...GO GET A LAWYER SO YOU WILL KNOW YOUR RIGHTS.
2007-08-10 01:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is not clear what you are asking for. What legal process you are talking about. Please give a bit of detail for you question here to get good answers
2007-08-10 01:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he didn't really want to let you go, he would be contacting you, honey. Kick him to the curb and move on.
2007-08-10 01:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by Lady of the Rings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go. just divorce him and make it final., if you've been without him this long, then you can continue on without him. let her deal with the heartache and pain and you just move on.
to hell with what he wants. what about what irene wants and needs??
2007-08-10 01:47:39 · answer #8 · answered by thick & beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your still married...why do you want to contact him...you need to get things finalized would be the only reason to contact him.
2007-08-10 01:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just divorce him and get on with life.
2007-08-10 01:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋