i am not sure if i like girls or if i like guys. or if i like both. i am very worried. i am fifteen and i can't seem to decide which i like some times please help!!
2007-08-09 17:59:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
since you're only 15 expolore your options i guess things to think about are if you see yourself settling down do you see it with a man or a woman? IF you fantasize who is it about things like that
2007-08-09 18:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pray about it intently.
Don't just take the easy road.
It is very hard being a teenager. It is the most difficult time in life, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
If you want to be honest with yourself, go and make sure you are not having confidence issues. Go get turned down a bunch of times and see how it makes you feel. Put in the effort to make your life at peace, and have faith in God's plan for you first and yourself second.
Don't ask anyone their opinion of your life. Only you and God have are concerned about you first, everyone else had their own agenda. Keep your mouth shut around the vultures, don't open your heart until you have the strength and faith to protect it.
2007-08-10 01:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you need to know is that it's not wrong to like boys, it's not wrong to like girls, and it's not wrong to like both. Be open-minded and don't turn down experiences that will help you figure this out (so long as you're safe), and then your body and feelings will decide for you.
2007-08-10 01:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey hey i struggled with this when i was 13 but ah it took one kiss with a guy to realize that i wasn't into it and i was like i just want to be with girls. So i suguest that you try both a girl and a boy and decide what one you like better. I hope that helps
2007-08-10 01:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need to rush; take time to explore yourself and your surroundings. You're fifteen, still young, and you still have time to experiment with your sexuality and see what you are comfortable with and what you aren't. Some people come out young, others need more time to explore themselves and understand what they react best to.
2007-08-10 01:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Karma Police 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang out an equal amount of time with each party, go out on a group like friend date like a movie, just a group of friends and talk to them and which ever you like more will be your answer
2007-08-10 01:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by mastershake1500 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried? Do you think there's going to be a test?
Relax and work with the stuff you DO know. How's the REST of your life going?
Its OK to like any and all, and none as well. RELAX!
2007-08-10 01:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by Elana 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why decide upon one or the other... enjoy the best of both worlds...
And as time passes.. you may prefer one more than the other...
2007-08-10 01:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Mari` 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with some guys and some girls. after a few experiences try to decide which you found more fulfilling and pleasurable.
2007-08-10 01:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by the Zero Dragon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you truly know your sexuality. You know yourself better than anyone here. I don't think that you should try to lable yourself, there really is no point, as long as you're happy with yourself, you shouldn't have to worry.
2007-08-10 01:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋