2007-08-09 15:45:03 · 15 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
i often wonder that too. you find a lot of that over in R & S. they ask questions about God or the love of God, or what to do in a particular situation, then just want to argue with everyone, then they pick the answer least suitable for their question (the one that sides with their mindset and way of thinking, not the ones that actually answer their questions); it would be a different story if they were using logic to reason things out to find the best, possible solution adequate to their needs and relevant to their question, but thats not the case.
i think some people just want to air their own opinions so the actual question itself is irrelavant as, they arent really seeking an answer; thats why i dont answer a lot of people's (so-called serious) questions over there. (or in any category much anymore). Because it's pointless, they want to argue, not be given a solution. I'll answer you, when you have a vaild question that you desire an answer for. until then, consider yourself ignored. I havent the time not the patience anymore to argue with people that just want to air an opinion, and have someone to argue with.
2007-08-09 23:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wanna know why? Because people already know what they want to do, they just want someone to agree with them. It officially has nothing to do with wondering what everyone else thinks of the matter. It now has to do with wanting others to make you feel confident in your decision. What if I don't agree? Then, they get all on the defensive. That's why I always ask a person (except for on here...hey, you're just asking for it here. lol!!!!) if they are sure they want to know what think. And if they say they are sure, then whatever comes out of my mouth after that is something they asked for. lol!!!!
2007-08-09 23:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by Honesty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I listen to other opinions!
2007-08-09 22:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by G.W. loves winter! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have found that when someone asks your opinion, it's to get an answer they want to hear so they can justify in there head that it's okay to do, and if it's not what they want to hear then they ignore you.
2007-08-09 22:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Shawnee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Usually people like that are only trying to bolster their own position that they are right. They don't really want your advice or your opinions.
2007-08-10 09:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it's not the opinion we want...we just want a listening ear...& if they give advice or opinions...then fine...
but sometimes all a person has to do is lend a sympathetic ear...
2007-08-10 18:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by × 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they only want to hear from others what they have in mind, if it differs, they don't listen
2007-08-09 22:49:06 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Sapphire 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they listen, but they are gonna do what they want regardless!! they just want to hear what they should do so they can do the opposite!
keep your head up girl!
2007-08-10 02:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by New York Chic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
cause some people just like to make other people feel important in their decision making
2007-08-09 22:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by RocKsTaR 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they think their crap don't stink. and when others give a different opinion than that, they don't want to hear it.
2007-08-09 22:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋