Hi All :) .. What are some ways that YOU'VE found PEACE with UNCERTAINTY? :D?

Question

Explain your answer........... Use examples if you wish.........
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Thanks, for answering in advance! :-)

*Have a beautiful day/night*

Thanks for sharing........

Take care!

I am more referring to situations, that you are UNCERTAIN about, they will ever be resolved...
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I know that life is full of uncertainty by nature, to be attached to certainty is a guarantee that peace will be elusive...
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Thanks, Zelda :)
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Answer 1

I try to find my own path around a problem if it looks like it will not be resolved one way or another. Or I can try to assign my role to someone else if I am constantly blocked by others or forced into unacceptible position. If that doesn't work, I take it day by day and usually try to get some emotional and psychic distance from someone or something I am stuck with.. Enjoy today and the rest of the weekend.

Answer 2

All of life is uncertainty.
When my mother had a stroke 9 years ago, I was wondering how she would take care of herself.
Well, then I jumped in and took care of her. Every day was uncertain.
I would go over to her house and she had made jello and spilled it all over the kitchen. She made hard boiled eggs and they were burnt and popped open all over the stove. Sometimes she had fallen and I had to figure out how I was going to get her up off the floor.
How was her health going to hold out?
Well, it slowly diminished over the 9 years.
Lots of "undesireable stuff" happened over that time. If there was a particularly bad day, I knew the next day would have to be better and it was.
The hard part was not knowing when the next bad days were going to happen.
She died last year with a lot of uncertainty leading up to that. Though she was a lot of work for those years, I still miss her.
Now my grown children are my source of uncertainty. And I just tell myself, they are on their own now.
You know what I do the most, pray. That is what has helped me the most. And I talk a lot to my great friends. Even though they don't tell me what I need to do, just getting stuff said gives me a new view sometimes.
Well, I could have said that without all the drama, I guess, but that's the story.

Answer 3

I'm answering this question just for the reason that your said have a beautiful day.

Peace with uncertainty?
I don't know. A good song possibly, which helps me think straight to find a possible solution. Looking in the eyes of the person I love and cherish, again all about the inspiration.
I'm a writer. I love to write, so to get my feelings out, and think clearer, i do chores or write.
Another thing, ask God.
It doesn't seem it to most people, but it seems that every situation I come across that seems to be tricky or unsure, I ask
what would jesus do?

again, have a beautiful day and live life to the fullest, like no ones watching.

Answer 4

By realising- that no matter WHAT happens to me, I WILL handle it- and move on. Everything has. Everything does. And Everything Will. So what's the "fuss"?! Uncertainty, like Change- is just naturally "built into the scheme of things". Life would be so BORING -if we all knew everything that was going to happen next! It's the "adventure" of dealing with AND overcoming Uncertainty- that aids in our growth & progress as Humans. So once you come to TERMS with DEALING with the "vagarities" of life- uncertainty is no longer a discomfort anymore. -It's nothing more than a cloud that passes across the Sun... :)

Answer 5

HI! =)

well peace is hard to find with uncertainty ...but it takes dedication like writing poetry, having journal basically whatever it takes to take the negative out of you like talking to your best friend about that certain uncertainty just remember that something bad always has to happen to us like for example when i started working my summer job 3 weeks later a new guy comes in 3 years younger than me and all and he was just the most aw full person...he would intentionally try to ruin my day and he would....like for example i was helping out a costumer and he comes right next to me and says that's not right your so stupid do it this way dumb @$$ gosh I'm sorry mam its just that she just cant do anything right....and he would just make me look bad at all times ....until one day I told him that no matter what he did to make me look bad I was still going to smile because his unhappiness wasn't going to rub off on me and if he ever looked bad doing something un like him I would help him ....and to my surprise he apologized and started behaving well and so by trying to view all bad aspects in a good way it could help also....

Answer 6

I find peace in knowing that when I feel like things are out of my control, it's only because it was never meant to be in my control in the first place--God has His hand over everything. The fact that I know that in my weakness He is made strong--that Jesus has overcome the world and He lives in me--gives me the strength and peace to be able to continue my walk in this life knowing that no matter the circumstances that may come, I am never alone and I have His favor.

Answer 7

I think your answer is in this book, "Embracing Uncertainty

Uncertainty can be good or bad. But look at it this way, if it's good you enjoy it. If it's bad, or let's say you get into trouble, learn from it. Learn from your mistakes and you will become a better person. Look forward to uncertainty with a smile. When you look back at those times, i think you'd laugh. But uncertainty makes you who you are today. =)

Answer 8

Accept that there are infinite things in this life outside of your control, and make sure that you do your best with the things that are in your control.

My oldest daughter was born w/ a heart defect that required 3 surgeries, and I could only trust in the abilities of those caring for her. My freaking out was not helping her, or me (not that I didn't freak). I just HAD to believe that she'd be okay, and now she's great! I do my best to make sure that I do what I can to make her stay healthy and have as happy a childhood as I can provide for her.

Answer 9

I believe that there is an order in the cosmos for us; and that order has a plan for all. If it is meant to be that something bad will happen; then I feel it will happen. If good is to come; then I feel it will also happen. Why worry about things we cannot change when we have a hard enough time changing the things we can.

Answer 10

In those situations, I choose the resolution I'm most comfortable with. Because it's unanswerable, I'll never know for sure however, no one can prove me wrong either. Just don't start turning it into 'fact' and leave it as just another one of those mysteries in life.