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Question

i am 15 and i wanna know how it feels like to have sex. but i am too scared to take the risk. can some1 pls tell me how it feels??

Answer 1

It is not a subject to be taken lightly. Everyone experiences sex in a totally different way, I may experience it one way, the next answerer may experience it yet another way, and so on.

Once over the initial 'first time' you can begin to gain experience in the act itself. Don't let the pain/discomfort from your first time cloud your judgment of having sex in the future, because it can be a very pleasurable experience.

In the meantime, there is masturbation....this is completely normal for you to experience. If you read in a book or see a movie with a couple petting, you may get a tingly feeling, down there; act upon that feeling by masturbating. As you gain in that experience, you will begin to see how the actual act of sex itself can eventually become. Time you take to masturbate is your time and a secret time for you, but nothing to be ashamed of. If you choose to tell friends, be warned one may be mad at you one day and decide to spill the beans; it is best to keep it to yourself for the most part. You can look up on the net about techniques to do this.

Answer 2

It feels different for different people. But it will feel better when you are an adult and hopefully married first. That way you want be sneaking around like some little kid. You will be doing it because you a woman not a teenager who isn't sure. Nobody can change your mind but yourself. But mine and most peoples advice is wait. Almost all the women I know now say they wished they were older and the married women say they wished they had waited till they were with there husbands so it would be something special only those two had experienced. And these women are in there early 20's. Good luck. Never feel pressured. The moment someone pressures you I'd say forget it. I did many times.

Answer 3

I don't blame you at all for being afraid to take the risk. Sex is a good but risky thing. How it feels depends on how much you know about your own body. The first time is not always fantastic because it hurts. It is not an extreme pain for most people but for some it is vry painful. The trick to that is to take your time with what you are doing and be with someone that is willing to be gentle and wait on you. Sex feels great when you have the right partner and you know what pleases you. Learn your own body before you give someone else a chance. I know you are 15 and people will say at your age you shouldn't do it but it is because there are so many things you want to know about your own sensuality first and there are tons of risks involved. Like I said sex feels wonderful when you are with someone that cares for you and wants to please you. Take your time and be wise about who you let share those moments with you. If you have a female that you trust, talk to her. Along with sex comes may things besides enjoyment. Be safe sweet heart and trust me it is fun.

Answer 4

The biggest thing you will feel is emotional vulnerability. It's a very emotional thing to have sex with someone and when you lose your virginity you will think (or hope) it was to someone who was very special. If you are young (and the guy is young) you will not be his last and many guys are either freaked by your emotional response and run away, or boast to their guy friends about another notch in their belt and move on. Be careful and wait it you are not sure.
If you are in love w the guy and feel emotionally secure, the bonding you get is amazing and the most wonderful thing in the world.
Physically it usually sucks the first few times you do it. You are tight, nervous and it hurts to have something big inside you, esp. w/ mixed feelings.

Answer 5

Intercourse should only be had between a married couple. Please let me tell you why.

I am 36 and have two wonderful children and an abortion in my past.

Sex is a lot like changing a diaper. Messy and smelly and something that just has to be done.

But then once its done (and *if* you have had an orgasm) you are very satisfied and pleased that it was done.

Sex between people who aren't married feels stolen and cheap but sex between a husband and wife is like flying and a release and a bonding... even a blending...

My biggest regret was not saving myself for my husband. I can give him all of my heart but I can never ever give him all of my body or soul again because I gave away a part of it already.

Answer 6

Sex is a great thing but should only be done between two consenting ADULTS! Sex doesnt feel the same for all people! Its different depending on who you are with, what position you are in and so on. When you are older, you will be able to experience it for yourself! Dont rush it! Save it for a very special person!

Answer 7

take it from me I'm 15 its probaly the best feeling you will ever have if your doing it with someone you realy love if not its not as good. I dont blame you 4 being scared I was the first time but now I'm ok I just watch out 4 who I do it with and I always use a condom and if I have the money birth control pills. I get them from my cusions thats over 18.

Answer 8

I am sure it is not what you think. TV makes it look so much more interesting then what it is. It really depends on who you are with and how you feel about that person if you do not really care about the person you are with it won't be worth the effort wait until you are more experienced in life and meet someone you are really in love with and it will make all the difference in the world. I am old and I know.;

Answer 9

Really, it feels different depending on a lot of things, like: who you are with, how they feel about you, how you feel about yourself, what kind of health each of you is in, if you like your partner or not, whether you are distracted or emotional, ect.
Sometimes it feels great, sometimes it feels awful, and sometimes, its so boring you wish you had just had a sandwich instead. Really, its pretty much like everything else in life. Romance and hot, hot feelings are great, but they ALWAYS eventually fade-usually in two years or less.

Answer 10

It's good that you're too scared. You're too young. Don't do it. You could get pregnant, you could get an STD, you could make yourself to where you could never have kids, you could die. Sex is for adults who can accept the responsibility.