okay. well see, he has a "best friend with benefits" and i can't accept that, esp. since i'm his girlfriend. today's our one month, but i haven't talked to him yet because he's grounded. my feelings for him have faded over time and since we're going to different highschools [about an hour away from each other], i think it would be better if we moved onto new people because chances are, he could cheat on me. yes, sounds like i don't trust him. i don't know how to end it without sounding stupid. help?
2007-08-09 13:26:10 · 8 answers · asked by kahyeh. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him that you just want to be best friends and nothing more. Tell him you dont want a relationship at the moment and that you dont want to ruin the friendship.
2007-08-16 04:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't trust him you should not be with him anyways.
and tell him that with you two go to a different school from each other, then you think it will be better if you two not to see each other no more. and tell the truth about it. that way he can't say that you didn't tell him that. and you were true fully about that. and at lest you didn't lie about it.
but if you two can work threw this then do that . i is going to be hard, because you two might be use to seeing each other every day or every other day.
some times it take us to go some where else to see that we have a good girl and our own life.
so, if you can work it out between the both of you then do just that. work out your problems with him buy talking to him.
that is the best way to deal with it.
good luck with that.
2007-08-09 13:45:57 · answer #2 · answered by map 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just say that i needed only read far enough to see "but hes grounded" to know that this situation is just plain silly. "friends with benefits" is just a fancy way of saying CHEATING. highschool relationships seldom ever last. my advice, ditch the dork for a college dude or better yet....focus on school!
2007-08-17 07:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by ???? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say you don't want to see him anymore. When breaking up starts to sound stupid is when people go on and on and on about the reasons why. If he asks, say "I'm just not cool with the 'best friends with benefits' thing, so I'm breaking up." Short and sweet is the way to go.
Good luck.
2007-08-16 12:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by July 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be brave, and say goodbye without making a big deal of it. You only have known him for one month so it is no problem to just say I'll see you after school is over. Move on quickly and try to grow up as you move on with your life.
2007-08-16 17:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be direct an honset if you have to call him or send an e-mail doesnt matter how, the sooner the better if you are going to do this
2007-08-17 10:39:29 · answer #6 · answered by panthor001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably to it face to face. just be like, "i feel like we're growing apart and i really dont like that you have a benificial friends... i think we should move on and see other ppl... but lets still be friends."
2007-08-17 06:12:51 · answer #7 · answered by **Amaze me ** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well call him and tell him how you feel. tell him you dont like him as much as you use to. or u could just tell him you prefer if ya was just friends.
2007-08-09 13:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Yesenia B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋