I love dis boy we have a great relationship but last night he told me that he didnt want to marry me only person that he wanted to marry was his ex-gf and he stills feels that way about her and she stills feel the same about him, should i be concerned or just let it blow over and trust him.
2007-08-09 12:38:32 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ SEXii LADiiE ♥ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yes, stay with a guy who is in love with his ex girlfriend and trust him.
does that really make sense to you?
2007-08-09 13:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by (Linzee18) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they need to get back together.
Don't get me wrong, just because someone doesn't want to marry you doesn't mean you should write them off immediately.
He could be saying that for many reasons: too soon to think about it, still a lot of problems to work out, still getting to know you.
But for him to use his ex-girlfriend as an example in this case is a different story.
I would bring this up to him, and if he answer isn't a good one, move on.
2007-08-09 12:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by prprincess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love hurts, but honestly you need to end the relationship because it is only going to hurt you in the long run because he will cheat on you with his ex because they obviously still have feelings for one another and that is never a good thing. You cant keep those type of feelings hidden for very long, as they will come out and someone will get extremely hurt and in this case it would be you.
2007-08-09 14:06:54 · answer #3 · answered by coolliz2444 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love never fails so I suggest you 'set him free', if it's meant to be you'll meet again so to speak. Because I think he's kind of stretching the limits and it sounds like he's still in love with his ex right now.
Bottom line is if he puts doubt in you about this relationship I don't think you should stay with him, because a good man will do his best to make you feel your greatest and instill trust in you.
2007-08-10 08:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want a marriage to come from your relationship? If so then it is time to cut bait, he made it clear your not what he wants in a wife only his ex is. Be happy he was honest with you and part as friends.
In the event you just enjoy him and really are not interested in marriage with him then sit back and enjoy a relationship with no expectations but be ready for the day he will return to his "future wife".
2007-08-09 13:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by honeykoen1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if they still have feelings for each other, but whats over is over. he moved on you and he should respect you guys' relationship and you. but when he told you that he only wanted marry his ex, he just totally disrepected you and your feelings towrads him. a boyfriend like that doesnt deserve the kind of love he's having now. so just break up with him.
there are still tons of guys out there!
2007-08-09 13:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Aimes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex-love is harsh. give him time to
handle his ex..this means letting him go.
holding on and pretending that this
issue is not there will only make the situation
worse and have u feeling things that you
shouldn't and don't want to feel. wait until
he's over his ex and if u still feel the same and
he feels like he can love u go ahead=)
2007-08-09 12:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's to trust? He is still in love with his ex-girlfriend. Let him go now. You need to find someone who loves YOU.
2007-08-09 12:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by Michele 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! If he still wants to marry his ex girl friend find a new boyfriend .Good luck
2007-08-09 12:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Max 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesn't want to be with you. if he still feels this way you u need to leave him and stop wasting your life with someone who loves you and only you.
2007-08-09 12:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋