We have been married for almost a month now, but I'm feeling like our marriage isn't going to last. My husband isn't affectionate toward me any longer... he doesn't want to wear his wedding band and he doesn't hug me when he goes to sleep anymore. Lately, we've been having argument and before marriage, we were doing fine. He convince me to marry him right away, but I told him we should wait. Now, after being married... things have gone down hill. How can I help this marriage to last since we are already married... what can I do to make it last?
2007-08-09 11:36:34 · 8 answers · asked by julie Robert 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage doesn't solve any problems and I think you have discovered this. See a marriage counselor immediately. If it isn't going to work you want to get out from it as rapidly as possible. An annulment is a whole lot easier to deal with than a divorce.
2007-08-09 11:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by John B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same marriage as you are and I am looking for the answers also. I have just been being strong for the both of us and also hiding some tears.... We got married after a year of joyous dating.... and then it all changed. My advice for you is to keep your head up.. You are worth so much and deserve a great and happy life. And in the end things will work out to how they are supposed to... either together or apart..... Good luck to you.. ;)
2007-08-13 10:43:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without talking to him u don't know how he really feels and u 2 might be able to work things out just by a little bit of communication.Just remember men and women don't always thing the same way that why it is so important to keep the lines of communication open.
2007-08-09 11:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by justducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to talk to you and tell you what is the problem. If either of you want to keep this marriage going you have to communicate with each other. Humans are not meant to be mind readers. You can't fix something if you don't know what the problem is.
2007-08-09 11:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you look into having the marriage annulled and then re-marrying when you're ready? I thought you have 90 days. I wonder what happened to him. (most men don't like wearing their wedding bands)
2007-08-09 11:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by Newly Eloped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about how you are feeling. Communication is a major key to a successful marriage.
2007-08-09 11:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THere has to be a reason why he is acting like this. Maybe he realized that he made a mistake and now he wants to make you realize it to by treating you badly and making you want to end things.
2007-08-09 12:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excact same thing happend to me and he started to go out and other stuff but like everyone else says talk to him or do the same thing he doing to you back at him.
2007-08-09 12:23:23 · answer #8 · answered by My hubby and my baby r my life ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋