i really hate when guys will try and chat you up at work and when they see you're clearly not interested they will get more aggressive (in their approaches). for example, sticking their leg out when you are passing by, stareing at you trying to make eye contact, asking you "why you looking so evil" (i know that is very poor grammer, but that is a quote. needless to say so many people think that's some how impressive, it's a real turn off). i don't like that sort of unwanted attention. the problem is my "superiors" had a chat with me and told me that I'M THE ONE who's being rude. i think i should pursue this. but the problem is how do i prove it. you can't stop someone from stareing at you, or co-workers from asking you how your doing (although that's not what they say. but still, the idea is that they are "concerned" BULL). i don't know what to do. could use some sound advise.
2007-08-09
10:27:03
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6 answers
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vanessa w
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"kikidsmom" what you said makes no sense. pretend to be gay!! and the crack about my attire. I WEAR SCRUBS LIKE EVERYONE ELSE. i'm not a child, i know when i'm being cornered. and i'm not going to start acting "dykey" either. you sound a bit bitter to me (since you started with your irrational theories). lawyer, i doubt it. that's the worst advice ever given from one woman to another. just act like one of the boys i guess. either that or you didn't understand the question.
2007-08-09
15:03:29 ·
update #1
all of you are right (except for the k person, can't remember who she is, but some nerve!!) thanks though. it may seem cowardly of me to ask total strangers about it, but it's just so hard to do what i know i have to do (like take the complaints further), only because i still have to work!!! even if i went somewhere else it would still be in the area. i don't want to be ostracized but i'm pissed that i have to be the "bad guy". it's sort of like that response i got from that silly "k" something woman the so called lawyer that does the "high five, let's share derogatory jokes, i'll bring in the donuts for you boys" person's attitude that i know i'll have to deal with to the 10th power!!
2007-08-09
15:57:32 ·
update #2