okay so i told my uncle why i dislike the woman that he is divorcing. i wasnt going to say why, but he asked. so i told. im over it now, but he totally flipped out and basically wrote me out of his life. called me stupid and that i dont know anything.
i said i was sorry, that it wasnt my place and lets put it all behind us. but i also said we should probably stop emailing because i might say something else that might screw up things up worse.
im hurt and i dont know what to do really. Im really sorry for what i said but then again...its how i feel. i also dont want anyone in the family knowing what i said. im at a lose of what to do now.
2007-08-09 09:59:17 · 3 answers · asked by SayAnything 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He opened the box and out came something he wasn't expecting. If he stays mad there's nothing you can do. You can write him a note and mail it to him telling him your sorry and you want to be Friends again. Just between you and me, I think He knew other people probably felt that way too, but he has to hide that and be PO'd at you for a while.
2007-08-09 10:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just put time and space between you for awhile.
Divorce is an emotional time so even if he is divorcing her, that doesn't mean he needs someone to add fuel to the fire. This will be a good lesson for you to learn.....do not add your 2 cents to personal issues that don't involve you.
Just put some distance between you for awhile. Maybe in a few months he'll be ready to talk about it, but let him initiate it. Right now, just keep your thoughts to yourself and be nice.
2007-08-09 17:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by LAL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he reacted without thinking. give him some time to clear his mind, this is hard for him. let a few weeks pass b4 u send an "i'm sorry" card. , or maybe u can also sit down with him after he cools down, and explain urself the right way.
hope everything will work out.
2007-08-09 17:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋