hey im a 18 year old female ive been mastebateing sence i was 15 or so...I ususaly hump pilliows ,teddybears, the end of a bed,or when im in the shower i use the water method...Im board with thouse and i was woundering if there was any new ways?? I have a viberator and i put that on my clict and it feels good but then it makes me feel like i have to pee so i stop...I also has never reached a organsm i dont think i get this feeling throughtout my body that feels amazing but nothing comes out after that feeling cause i stop...Can anyone help me??
2007-08-09 08:31:35 · 21 answers · asked by xxlynners15xx 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
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2007-08-09 08:36:25 · answer #1 · answered by mbz 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok if this is a joke so be it. but i am going to tell you how to have an orgasim. I can have an orgasim 2 ways and they are very different. first one may help to get to the second. A woman should not be afraid to experience with her body. my first orgasim I was 26 yrs old. I could not believe what i had done to my self. lay down take cloths off set the mood, quiet or music, candle light, and just you and your hand, (my husband was at work) above the clit is a space. if you push you will feel a muscle get large and when you stop pushing it relaxes, you have to rub that muscle and it will get hard, rub til you fell it real hard, pushing with your legs and feet every muscle,you do it long enough and you will feel a strange sensation come over you dont stop, rub til it happens, and you will know you when it does, I think my heart stops,U cant breath and I cume all over my self. Best feeling I ever had, and if you dont reach it the first time try try again later. Second orgasim when my husdand and me have sex, he can take his penis and rub me a certian way, and i start this is a feeling and I start spraying I have several, one after another, when we are done I am soaked and he is too , the bed is soaked, I have had 20 or more having sex, then a get a cume headach. I am drained, and cant move, sometimes I will still have the orgasim,s coming and i cant stop them, this is after he is done and cumes, we cume together a lot the same time, I have great sex, with him or with my self. let me know if it ever happens
2007-08-09 08:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by Warm_Hearted 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
About 1 of 10 women never reach orgasm. Some women who become aroused may not reach orgasm because they fear "letting go," especially during intercourse. This fear may be due to guilt after a pleasurable experience, fear of abandoning oneself to pleasure that depends on the partner, or fear of losing control.One theory, which is being explored as a contributor to women’s orgasmic problems, is insufficient blood flow to the vaginal area. Much like a man who will have problems with his erection if the blood is not flowing probably there is some thought that a lack of blood can keep the clitoris from becoming properly engorged. women who may not be fully educated about female ejaculation may assume themselves to be suffering from urinary stress incontinence and seek medical intervention. Treatment for urinary stress incontinence may involve the use of medications or surgery, both unnecessary and dangerous if the source of the fluid leakage is female ejaculation.
2007-08-09 08:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I don't know why you are asking the men's board... but that's cool.
Anyway, make sure to be good and relaxed and thinking about something sexy, especially if it is a psychological kink of yours.
Also, the having to pee thing is most likely your Gspot being stimulated, just keep going, you probably won't pee. In fact, you may be one of those girls that "squirt" which drives the guys wild.
2007-08-09 08:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by akristel2003 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Considering you posted this in the men's health section of answers I'm pretty sure those statements are making every man who reads that what to come help you in person. So thats my advice. Forget the masturbation and get a man.
2007-08-09 08:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by TheMadChemist 2 · 7⤊ 0⤋
That feeling that you have to pee real bad means that you are about to climax. Next time don't stop and you should be fine.though you might want to try it in the bathroom first time.
2007-08-09 16:50:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ohioguy95 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when you are using your vibrator you "feel+think" as if you have to pee---it might be that you are about expierence female ejaculation. Try getting on top of the washing machine or try using your hands to finger yourself or rub your clit. Read these for more info:
www.clitical.com
http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/ht/masturbatewomen.htm
Take care and good luck ; )
2007-08-09 08:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by A 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you get that feeling like you have to pee, ride it on out. Don't stop, that feeling is your orgasm starting to build up. It will be awesome and you'll never forget it.
2007-08-09 08:50:46 · answer #8 · answered by Solo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like you have to pee when u use the vibrator i would keep going through that...you are probably one of the girls that can actually squirt or ejaculate so i would relax yurself and try it....just keep going through it and have fun with it...keep in mind u might want to try this in the bath tub cause its messy
2007-08-09 11:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by njdevil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u use ur viberator dont stop keep going its gonna feel like ur gonna pee but u aint ur reaching an orgasm!
2007-08-09 08:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by nikita 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you have a juccuzi try the jet or try a jet from a bath tub a carrot or use something in a shape of a dick
good luck
2007-08-09 08:36:18 · answer #11 · answered by mrshavok101 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋