If n*a*k*e*d* women don't turn me on and I don't have any intentions of sleeping with a girl I really like, am I bisexual? I generally don't like girls. I don't check girls out. I prefer guys. There is just this one girl that I really like but wouldn't do anything more than just passionately kiss her. What's going on with me? Please, no rude answers. Thanks
2007-08-09 08:05:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Attraction can have many forms. You can be physically attracted, emotionally attracted, sexually attracted etc etc. There is something about this particular girl that you like. It is quite normal. It means you admire the person for X or Y quality.
Kissing means different things to different people. To some people kissing is a very intimate thing. For example there have been prostitutes that refuse to kiss their clients because is too personal. They want to reserve themselves for their mate. There are other people that don't think much of kissing. They can kiss a person and it has the same meaning as to kissing a dog. So the question is what does kissing means to you?
Both sexes have had homosexual fantasies at some point in their life for what ever reason. So its quite normal. The difference is that strait people just have a fantasy while gay people act on it as much as they can.
2007-08-09 08:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started off like that too... I was attracted to my best friend and only wanted to kiss her. After doing that and liking it a hell of a lot my feelings got deeper. Over time and as I had more serious relationships, one thing led to another and I started sleeping with girls. Everyone's different though. I don't think you should worry about labelling yourself... just go with the flow and see how things develop.
2007-08-09 15:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by jenny84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't mean to be rude or anything but I dunnuo wth is going on with u. Have u ever slept with a girl? maybe the girl who u passionatly kiss can go with u on a trip and maybe u can book a hotel with just one bed and possibly u guys can do whatever u want there maybe that'll explain if ur bi lez or straight but I think ur a bi.hope that helps u.
2007-08-09 15:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by cottoncandyluver12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need the label "bisexual" to define your life. Love whomever you choose. The only reason why labeling yourself is necessary is if you are going to 1) shove it in everybody's face or 2) join a special interest group and lobby congress.
2007-08-09 15:09:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience (my wife is bisexual), it's usually the qualities of the person's personality that turn a woman on or off, not the physical characteristics of her body -- visual stimulation is more of a "guy" thing.
2007-08-09 15:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's just normal behavior. I wouldn't worry too much about it. I wouldn't even say you are bisexual.
2007-08-09 15:10:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can be in love with someone without lusting after them. Love is the mind and the heart. Lust is the body. They're often quite seperate (although one may lead to another...).
2007-08-09 15:13:07 · answer #7 · answered by accidentshappen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you just really like your female friend. It happens. If you can't see yourself with a woman, don't lead her on (if she seeks more from you.)
2007-08-09 15:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by adoptive mom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere between bi-curious and stone fem bisexual.
2007-08-09 23:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree...u just find this girl attractive, it happens, doesn't mean you're gay...maybe u see her as having male tendendices or s/t...but it's cool and very normal
2007-08-09 15:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by VWBeetleBear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋