i never had it, do i have a problem?
2007-08-09 07:28:13 · 21 answers · asked by Nora 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Nope, no problems. You just haven't found the right person to make you feel good. If it continues however, then I would say to see a doctor because there is a medical condition where you cannot achieve an orgasm. Try masturbation. You will find out right away if there is something wrong.
2007-08-09 07:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by kikio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, women are more likely to have an orgasm with a partner if they know their bodies (and minds) well themselves.
So... get to know yourself. What do you like? What turns you on? Then you can communicate with your partner about all that.
Check out the Hitachi Magic Wand. It's a "massager" that has been around since the 1970s for a reason... it's really powerful and has been suggested by doctors for women who have a hard time orgasming.
Also, if you're young ... don't worry about it. It'll happen eventually.
2007-08-09 07:41:28 · answer #2 · answered by fiercelingua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should play around and find out for yourself what feels good. You probably will have more success that way than waiting for it to happen with a partner. And then you can tell your partner what feels best to you. You have to relax, enjoy the feeling, don't worry that you're not going to orgasm, because the worry might keep you from having one.
2007-08-09 07:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by CNJRTOM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Yes there are ways to have an orgasm.
2007-08-09 07:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by rhonda_wahm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice with a vibrator first and don't be afraid to relax...if you're thinking too much about it then it will be harder to achieve orgasm. Once it happens, you'll know and then you'll never leave the house. :)
2007-08-09 07:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by Miz Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not totally unheard of, although you're definitely missing out.
The best thing you can do is just explore and figure out what feels good, keep working. Buy some lube and a vibrator online.
2007-08-09 07:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls/women cannot have an orgasm without direct manual or oral stimulation to the clitoris. What have you tired? Bullet, hand-held back massager, shower massager, your hand/fingers?
2007-08-09 07:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the right attitude matters, you might want to vary that and see if it gets better. Often women are too agitated and aerobic, sometimes works better to lay back and relax.
2007-08-09 07:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no you dont have a problem, you may not be doing it right. As i dont know your age or sex E mail me and I can give you some advice.
2007-08-09 10:20:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok....what's your gender? I think for the ladies it's a little harder unless you have a man that knows how to do it right. For men it should be easy. Just call ole Rosie Palmer. (I feel for you since I just had 4 last night! :) Oh yeah!
2007-08-09 07:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by littledevl33 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋