When your rubbing on y our clit just do rub tap tap tap. lol. put an ice cube on your clit also its a nice feel.Then lubricate with that liquid or w/e go to the intimate section..then there's always the jet setting on the shower head. lol.
2007-08-09 07:29:07
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answered by mimi1dreams 2
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I'll assume this is a serious question.
The reason you are having difficulties is that you don't know your body well enough. Like everything else it just takes practice. You just have to touch the right buttons in the right sequence.
So, first things first. You have to get to know yourself better. The first thing is what turns you on. It is different for everybody. It could be a painting, a romance novel, some guy or girl dressed in a certain way. It can even be a situation. For example some scenario like when the boss has an affair with the secretary or the idea of doing it in a public place. To each its own right?! The point is that you have to be turned off in order to work so, find what gets you turned off.
The second thing is not to put too much fuss over it. Just do what feels right. So, explore your body to find out what you like and don't like. Just imagine how you would like to be tuched or touched somebody. For example how will it feel for somebody to rub your breast. Well, imagine that somebody is rubbing your breast and simulate the motion with your hand.
Third thing is to know your anatomy. By your avatar I will assume that you are female. If so then one thing to realized is that most females achieve orgasm trough clitorial stimulation not viginal penetration. I mean you could achieve orgasm through penetration but is more rare or more difficult. Ofcourse you can combine both. There is also the mystical G-spot but people can't agree if it exist or not and or if every woman has one. Anyways, now you know where to touch so go touch it. How you touch it is up to you. Its all about ow you like to be touch. The good thing about masturbation is that you get instant feedback. If you like something you will know right away. If you don't you will definately know right away too.
If all else fails there is always a vibrator.
Remember that sex is not only physical but also emotional. What goes on inside your head plays a bigger part than the actual physical part.
2007-08-09 08:05:45
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answered by mr_gees100_peas 6
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when walking around in public -pick someone out of a crowd that turns you on-think of that person while masturbating -there are also products available in a pharmacy that help create a tingling sensation-
2007-08-09 07:31:42
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answered by matthetech 2
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I just rub my cl*t in a circular motion and play with it till I get off. Also try using some fingers while doing it, if you need penetration.
2007-08-09 07:28:25
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answered by Trinidy 5
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It can be a mental block. Try using visual stimulation like a movie and a vibrator.
2007-08-09 07:27:53
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answered by jencaniglio 3
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I am a certified masturbation coach. I give the first 10 lessons free.
2007-08-09 07:33:22
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answered by AmericanPatriot 6
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i always masturbate, it really relieves me, clit stimlating is best for me, but always remember to use your imagination, i always imagin that my boyfriend, mike, is licking me out or playing with his cock or something, its really good, go on this website for different ideas and stuff, good for men too
www.mymasturbation.co.uk
have fun
xx
2007-08-09 07:29:43
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answered by sav 3
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lay on your stomach or your back and put your 4 fingers on your clit.
then rubbb. move your hand in circles.. do whatever feels best.
alsooo an electric toothbrush feels good in the bath. put it on your clit.
i find it helps me to climax if i point my toes.
idk why though lol.
=D
2007-08-09 07:29:34
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answered by kcg4 2
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What do you mean it doesnt work? have you tried maybe watching a porn and do it as it turns you on...If your not turned on then its useless...
2007-08-09 07:28:23
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answered by puertolinda2003 3
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Get a boyfriend or some sex toys.
2007-08-09 07:49:29
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answered by bigpoppapun33 3
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