2007-08-09 05:48:17 · 43 answers · asked by Handsome Stranger 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. But there might be instances where having an affair is the only way a person can function and not go crazy.
Affairs can be very hurtful. They are dishonest. I think for the majority of people, it is wrong. But I recognize that there may be exceptions.
2007-08-09 05:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Unsub29 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No.
Yes, because if im going out with someone or married to someone, i expect them to be honest, and trust me, and i expect that i can trust them. Then they go off and have an affair, and that just betrays everything.
On the other hand, if i'm the one having the affair, it's not so bad on me, because it was my choice to do so. I'm a big believer in Karma though, so at some point it will come back around. I would never have an affair, no matter my feelings for the other person. I believe if you're no longer interested, break it off, and then date, don't try and balance two hearts at once.
Hope that helps!
xx
2007-08-09 05:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you make a promise stand by it. Having an affair is only wrong, because iy's breaking a promise. When you want out of a marriage contract just be honest and having an affair is sometimes but not always a sign you want out of the contract.
2007-08-09 05:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well having an affair is wrong. I can on the other hand understand where your coming from. My theory on "cheating" goes like this: You can't say you love someone and that your sorry when you cheat, Because you obviously don't "love" them. I've done it too but its never reallly a good thing to do. Just be honest and you'll be ok.
2007-08-09 05:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by Miss. Realz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I think if you - or whoever- thinks about having affair, try to figure out what's going on with your current relationship and why you want the affair. Talk to your partner Also, think about the consequences. If the other person ever found out, it definitely won't be pretty.
2007-08-09 05:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by blackoil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong, its lying and betraying your spouse/partner. You gave your word of exclusivity to her and if you don't feel you can keep it, then you should either let them go or give them the option to stay but have an open relationship (I would leave!). Not only are you lying, you are betraying her and possibly putting her life in danger (lack of contraception). Having an affair is more than wrong it's competely selfish.
2007-08-09 10:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no morals do you...? didnt think so. wow you seriously have to ask this problem probably means you werent brought up right. lets see...your married (or dating) which signifies an bond to one another "til death do you part"...when you are CHEATING (or having an affair) you broke that bond behind her back. if she had an affair against you would you think of it as wrong or just blow it off? tell her, stop having an affair, go to therapy. if you never tell her though that just makes it worse bc there is something you are hiding from your hand picked "soulmate"
2007-08-09 05:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Define affair? Sneaking behind someones back? Yes that would be wrong. Open marriage? No - that's why it is open. It really depends on your definition of affir and all the parties involved.
2007-08-09 05:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by purple dove 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes--it's very immature and irresponsible to have an affair. Loyalty and committment should be very important in a relationship.
2007-08-09 05:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by somebody 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I think sex is just sex but if you are married I think if you have an affair maybe not you but the other person ends up getting mixed feelings and then it can cause problems so I think you shouldnt do it
2007-08-09 05:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by sashaaspen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋