get married they just want to have sex and more sex. They will be with you in a relationship but never marry you. So what's wrong with having a child if the woman can support it by herself?
2007-08-09 05:30:01 · 8 answers · asked by hanna 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
well, as a single mom i can say i would prefer to have married the father of my child before we had our daughter....since we were not married when i had her...i felt like....it made it easier for him to walk away.....I am capable fo financially taking care of both her and me....but it would be nice to have a partner......
2007-08-09 05:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by spice g 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since there are so many women that will sleep with them without getting married, most men today (in western society that is) can get away with using the various women they encounter for sex. That doesn't make it or having children out of wedlock a good idea.
2007-08-09 13:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The sanctity of marriage between one man and one woman is God ordained. There is real purpose in His plan; to have children come forth under the marriage covenant having commitment, integrity, and morals.
Far too many people today make light of the traditional values that helped form this country. In the end, their actions will be their damnation. The children thus born to out-of-wedlock parentage will continue the habit because they see the example set before them. How sad.
Years ago, the act of illegitimate children brought forth into the world were met with shock and dismay. Now, it has turned to vain congratulations upon the non-committing parents of lesser values and integrity.
2007-08-09 12:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Guitarpicker 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont mind your opinion but your generalization of men makes me think that prehaps you need to get out more. Not all men are like that not even most of them are. And if you let a man use you for sex its your fault.
Men only do what you allow. So dont let them.- EVE(well thats sorta what she said)
2007-08-09 12:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by MJMGrand 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Children need to grow up with mom and dad in the same household. End of story.
2007-08-09 12:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well, there is really nothing wrong with it. However, I think it is generally easier to have someone else helping you. I would seriously wonder what your motivation is to doing it alone. Plus, think of the kid - do you want him or her to only have one parent?
2007-08-09 12:39:25 · answer #6 · answered by CURRIEND 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I don't know anyone who purposely sets out to be a single mother.
2007-08-09 12:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by BAnne 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are a giant idiot. a child needs a father and a mother. ive seen kids like this.(in high school. im 15) and the are soooo gay. (not literally but u know.) imagine if u had grown up with no dad.
2007-08-09 12:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by Nick 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋