so i had this friend who at the end of the school year started treating me really badly and calling me names that im waaay to modest to even say.. i ended up telling her that if she kept treating me like that she'd drive me away. she also shared some very personal information of mine with i guy whom id just started dating against my wishes. sence i quit talking to her she's left really immature bullitans on myspace at me... however i haven't responded bc i think its rediculous. two days ago she left this pic of the two of us on my myspace so i messaged her and told her how she hurt me but am willing to try to be friends with her again... did i do the right thing? she responded and said she missed me and was sorry... what should i do? thanks.
2007-08-09 05:08:26 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Anyone can behave badly... it takes someone very special to forgive that person and give them another chance and let the past lie there in the past. I think you are a lovely person because you did not retalliate but kept calm. Maybe now you have your friend back she will be more loyal to you than ever. I have had a similar experience some years ago. I forgave and the relationship has been rock solid ever since... and I am so pleased for both of us. It has been a blessing to both of us. May it be so for you also.
Cheers
Lisa
2007-08-09 05:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe people deserve a second chance so I think you've done the right thing. You should be proud of yourself for not responding to her immature antics, that was the right way to handle it. You sound very mature.
If in the future your friend should do these things again well I'd probably just walk away but hopefully this was a temporary thing. Could she have been jealous of you because you were seeing someone? I know girls quite often do especially if you start spending more time with him than with her. Her feelings could have been hurt and she was lashing out. Talk to her about it.
Good luck.
2007-08-09 05:23:56 · answer #2 · answered by Choqs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is entirely up to you if you want to forgive her or not. Keep in mind that she told a guy some very personal information about you against your wishes and she should not be trusted. I applaud you for not retaliating and not stooping to this girl's level. The best thing that you can do for yourself is to go out there and meet new people. This girl is NOT worthy of your friendship and you deserve someone who values and appreciates your friendship. You also deserve someone that you can trust as well and not share your business with other people. Good luck and I wish you all the best.
2007-08-09 05:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is good bit I just forgive and ill never act the same around them my mom used to hit ne when I was 3 and I don't trust her I do anything behind her back so I just forgive but I also forget!
2016-05-17 23:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you’ve already solved this problem! If this were the only time your friend had shared something you’d told her in private, it would only be fair to give her another chance. But since she’s spilled your secrets and doesn’t seem to care that it upsets you, she’s not acting like a true friend. It’s time to move on. There are girls out there who are trustworthy friends, so go find them!
I hope this helps:)
2007-08-09 05:25:29 · answer #5 · answered by Itoshii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very carefull and cautious besides you are the only one who can say wether you feel comfortable about trusting her again hope this helps some
2007-08-09 05:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive, some people are just high some times and forget whatever they say and doesnt care about no body...but I think you can forgive her if she's a better person...but if she's actin like a ho then pl0x kick her outt!
2007-08-09 05:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you two need to get together in a mutual place and talk about this.
take care.
2007-08-09 05:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋