i m very worried now a days,i m feeling complex now a days.i never felt like this before,if anybody had some problem i solved it i help them ,but now i need help .i think i m not beautiful my weight is 60kg ,recently i did dnc coz i have already 2kids ,i feel very deprission,i don,t know what is happening with me.therefor i can,t do anything ,all day i spend on net or doing my domistic work,i don,t want go outside,i feel lonliness ,i can,t understand how i can get rid of this situation ,otherwise i know my health ,ll be destroyed,everytime i feel i m tired even i don,t do any hardwork,all day i eat in depression ,plz help me ,i m feeling very bad that i can,t explain in my words as i have any brden in my mind,what i should do,i don,t go for walk almost for 1 month coz i don,t want ,or u can say my heart don,t want.plzzz help me
2007-08-09 03:12:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You should go talk to a Dr. you are depressed. Deppression is real you should not be ashamed If you want to feel better you should talk to a proffesional. Your regular family Dr. would do he/she can refer you if it is needed.
2007-08-09 03:19:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Depression has set in due to the "dnc"... It will take time for that to heal. Where is your husband? Do family activities together. Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. Your children need you, the house needs attention. Being slim doesn't make a person beautiful. The lovable, simple nature is attractive. Get off the net! U R living in a virtual world. Step out into the real world and find for yourself the difference of interacting with people, directly. Get a job, part-time since you have 2 children to care for. You have just got to keep yourself busy, all the time. Spend more hours in prayer, read good books, visit your family....
You are the ONLY person who can help yourself! All of us can advise, but its you that makes the decision TO DO!
2007-08-09 16:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be hopeless. Going to a counselor will only make things more complex for u because u aren't mentally sick. U simply need a change. Don't say u can't get out of your home. Firstly just go for a vacation, where ever u like then I think it will be good if u continue with your education, if not so learn any foreign language or take any computer courses which will enable u to make friends and u will stay out of your daily life.
Decreasing your weight is not difficult at all. Just one & half hours of workout per day is sufficient.
Hope this helps. Good Luck!
2007-08-09 11:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Super S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wallowing in self pity. Go get a full time job and be busy or if you cant get a job, go volunteer in a childrens home, hospital , old age home or some other place where you can mingle with and be of help to others and stop imagining things about yourself. You will find that there are thousands of people worse off than you, that ought to help you be grateful for what you are and what you have - snap out of depression - IF YOU WANT TO.
2007-08-09 10:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have two kids that need you. Make them your strength and plow through the useless things in life. They need you and if you become depressed they will suffer. Your job as of now is to give this world two individuals who will make the world a better place. Why are you lonely with two children?Why do you need to be beautiful? Why are you thinking so much? Nothing is wrong with you and unless you understand that it will be hard for you to do anything and everything.
2007-08-09 17:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by lil 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry dear....there is nothing wrong bieng fat....
i shud be beautiful from ur heart...and i am sure tht u r beautiful frm ur heart...bcoz u have 2 lovely childrens....
go out ...make friends....even if ur heart dosnt allow to do so..
go for a walk every evening.....eat well..there is nothing wrong if u eat much....
eat as well as exercise....
concentrate on ur children....play wid them...
dont worry....alwayz laugh...
2007-08-09 10:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Nazar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have written so many things ..........that shows how worried r u ........i think loneliness can be aweyed by making frends......
do u do orkuting ..............if not start doing it
best of luck
2007-08-09 10:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time that you consult a psychiatrist.
2007-08-10 04:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by jimmybond 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO AM I
2007-08-09 12:46:55 · answer #9 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think so
2007-08-09 10:53:29 · answer #10 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋